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Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by dirk214, Sep 12, 2017.

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    I there. I recently broke up with my girlfriend and am not sure how to continue chastity from here on out. I am looking for any solo ideas and anything I can do solo regarding chastity and self bondage. I appreciate you reading this and hope to hear form you soon. Thank you.
     
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    Well. I hope someone answers here. I appreciate anyone's response here. I am not sure how to proceed.
     
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    Emlalock is a nice option for online keyholding and letting someone else have a level of control. As far as self-bondage...that's a long conversation. There is tons of info on this website and you need to read the SAFETY page and the page explaining different release mechanisms.
     
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    Give the key to your ex girlfriend :D
     
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    Well, minus giving the key to my ex(sorry kepoke). I was also looking for advice on which device to use whilst solo.
     
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    While I understand where your coming from. I doubt giving the key to my ex would help. I am really looking for a solo keyholder as well as what device I should use. Since we broke up I have got off at least 4 times a day and I think that is unhealthy. I want to stop myself and I need a better device. I have a cb 6000, a bon 4sm, and a ebay bought chastity belt. I am looking for a easy to wear long term chastity device I can use to restrain myself till I meet my new long term girl. Please let me know about any suggestions. Thank you all.
     
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    Kitchensafe (ksafe) can make the keys inaccessible for up to 10 days (more if you take out the batteries).
     
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    you can start by leaving the keys at work or hidden somewhere that is inconvenient for you to get to.
     
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    That’s a great idea. Start with a weekend when you are not in work then you know you have 2-3 days of chastity. Then try longer periods.
    Try posting the key to yourself via 2nd class or slower mail.
    Little challenges will help.
     
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    Kitchen Safe is a good idea. The longest self lock period is ten days, you can remove the battery to stop the timer.