Hi All, I am a relative late comer to chastity and my hub and I now practice 24/7 to the benefit of our Female Led Relationship. It has taken a lot of time and patience for me to get somewhere close to understanding what my sub hub gets out of his lock up and also more broadly out of a FemDomme relationship. I have enjoyed the journey tremendously and have seen our relationship grow. I have found this forum to be open, honest and very interactive in getting to grips with all matters chasitity - even in the areas that I will probably never understand so I thought I would pose some questions for the broader community out there on a topic that has puzzled me for a while. Outside of a relationship, why would a man partake in chastity? If there is no relationship to benefit, why are there so many men out there who lock themselves up and seek keyholders that they have no actual relationship with? Do self lockers create a "fantasy persona" that they serve in order to make the experience more real or is the physical constraint sufficient?