So what do I call her?

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  1. js11756
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    ok - we are not a 'typical' D/s couple.
    She is as vanilla as can be, with low interest in sex. She has little interest in being a KH, but is willing to try because I asked her to. She does not want to discuss the arrangement, or even think to often about it.

    I like enforced chastity as it tickles my kink. I am constantly turned on while working on my list of chores.
    I am her consenting humble servant (and the house has never been cleaner!)


    So - I am looking for a pet name that will imply mistress, but not push the point. Goddess is out :) My lady is a possibility (implying I am her knight). I think Princess and my Queen are also out.

    Any ideas?

    Thanks in advance!

    js
     
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    Rachel Owned by Mistress Michelle

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    Your Wife sounds just like mine. Good luck on getting Her to change. i have been trying for more then 3 years now. Although She likes me cleaning the house, doing laundry and all that stuff She would rather read a romance novel then do any research on chastity or D/S or anything sexual at all. Mistress Michelle even invited Her to write and She wouldn't even do that. i did get her to play the black balled game but in between there is just mostly lockup time for me, hardly any teasing at all. Didn't mean to hijack your thread just wanted to let you know how i made out.

    As for a name She won't have one either.

    Rachel
     
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    maturemetal CUSTOM CAGES AND TUBES

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    Same here, but she likes to be called Boss.
     
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    The Domme name

    Wow, always a very personal one - maybe it begins in exploratory stage until SHE decides how to be addressed through her own research.

    It's very personal for each couple.

    i like that moniker metal, BOSS.

    :butterfly:
     
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    Thanks Rachel - it is good to know I am not alone in this! :)

    I like 'Boss' Metal - I may try that. Right now I give her a big "Yes Mamm" whenever she directs me.

    Thanks!
    js
     
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    madamsboy Looking for a special female

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    We use Madam, with ma'am to be used in public (not that I do use it).
    It is what Madam chose to be refered to by a while back. She didn't like the term mistress.
     
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    My Wife doesn't mind being called "Boss"....
    Easy to use in public and between us we know what it really means.
     
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    chastityslavejohn Mistress Irianna's pet

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    in private it's always Mistress. in public i call Her Sweetie or Sweetheart but in the third person it's alway's "my Lady", as in "my Lady will have a Ketel One and Cranberry".
     
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    You're asking almost total strangers to come up with a private nickname between you and your wife?? I the two of you can't work THAT out between yourselves, how the hell did you ever get this far?
     
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    LOL - the point was not for 'almost total strangers' to come up with the nickname - the point was to ask a large group of people for suggestions. I am sure you know about things I do not, and vice versa - together the group knows more then each of us alone.

    And to that point, I had not thought of 'Boss'.

    js
     
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    snubbe86 Searching for Mistress

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    I personally use Miss or My Love Darling or the like. Thats what she want to be addressed.
     
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