Snobbery about online relationships

Discussion in 'Online chastity and self locking' started by L-u-c-y, Jun 6, 2018.

  1. Jack In A Cage
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    Very sorry to hear about your situation, some guys are idiots. I would kill to live closer to my Mistress/gf let alone in the same house!!
     
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    Forgive me if this sounds too obvious, but as this fantasy has become a real relationship problem have you considered marriage counseling?
     
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    First off until i met my current Mistress in a now defunct site's chatroom i must admit that i would never be in an on line relationship. Before anyone asks yes we have met on more than one occasion. Sex had nothing to do with it.
    We have now been together as a Mistress/sissy for 15 yrs. We have come to know each other so well we have this special connection that we know if the other one is hurting. There have been times when she has been upset and called me out of the blue to just talk. Even in these conversations i show her the respect as my Mistress.
    Living in the same house, well yes we would both love that but due to outside family commitments it is just not possible.
     
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    I just saw this and it seems to belong on this thread.

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    I couldn’t agree with you more @L-u-c-y
    There are people here I’ve shared things with and feel closer too than people I have day to day, face to face interactions with. Being able to build an image and idea of a person in your own mind based solely on their thoughts and feelings is a beautiful thing.
     
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    What an idiot. There is NOTHING wrong with on line relationships per se, but what you describe is cheating. Dishonesty in ANY relationship is a death knell.
    Hope he realises what he has thrown away.
     
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    @LynX - This site is full of men who have struggled with (and continue to struggle with) getting their wives to pay attention to them sexually, let alone facilitate the kinks they crave. Your husband needs a serious wake-up call. Tell him to cut the lock, or cut off the cage. Give him a new one, and *you* keep the keys. Take him past whatever his longest lock-up has been before you even consider letting him out. Tell him what he is looking for sleeps next to him every night. If he refuses, have a discussion about a formal separation. If that doesn't work, I assure you that there are plenty of other 'fish in the sea.'
     
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    What a clown. Even cheap, crappy mobile phones and laptops come with a camera or webcam these days. Not hard to do a mirror selfie. No excuses not to verify who you are with a picture these days. He is being played.
     
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