Is anyone able to explain whats the deal with trying to fit into the smallest device possible? As I'm new to to this lifestyle, from what I understand you can gradually buy smaller and smaller devices as your penis adjusts to fit into smaller devices and can even get to the point that your penis will actually even shrink in its natural flaccid state e.g you may start out at 8cm flaccid but over time through the use of chastity devices it can shrink to 4 or 5cm flaccid. Is this true? Also, I ask the question because my wife says she has bought me a device for my birthday. It's on its way. She showed me the site she purchased from, but did not tell me which one. She laughed at the smallest device. When I explained as I did above, she wanted to know why anyone would want to do that. For the very first time I realised that I would actually like to. But I don't know why. So I did not tell her. Is anyone able to explain why we want this? Because I don't know ow why I want to, even though I do. Thanks in advance!!
For me it easier to wear - hides well under cloths - fit better on panties - Very little night time sleeping issues
I have the smallest size Jailbird (1 1/4"). The reason is that my wife wanted to stop my full erections that I got in the off the shelf devices. My penis has gotten smaller over the last 5 years. I barely touch the sides of the cage when flaccid and sometimes do not get to half of its length. I was able to get a full erection in even the small CB6000 and Bon4. The only answer was a much smaller cage. Now as soon as she teases me, I am pushing my cage out and hurting my testicles. My wife enjoys controlling my erections as much as my orgasms. Plus she loves when my skin pokes out of all the openings so she can use her long and sharp nails to jab it. I would have gone with a 1" cage if Mature Metal made one. That would have fit better.
I've noticed in other threads you have mentioned the shrimp kage as partially due to age and weight gain. Is consistent chastity device usage also contributing? Were you interested in shrinking the size of your penis, or just your wife? I am interested in shrinking mine for my wife. Kind of as another symbol surrendering my manhood to her. She is not interested in it, so I won't push the issue. I am still curious as to why I even want to do it? I've always wanted a bigger penis, and now for some reason I want to shrink mine, but only for HER. I am 'average' size at the moment. 7inch erect, have not measured flaccid.
Hi Dkid! I have a little collection of cages and I can tell you that the biggest and the longest ones are the harder to bare for multiples reasons. Mains are: First, when under trousers it makes a bulge (that could be inviting for some, but usually not gor caged mens!). And when you move the cage go from the right to the left side of the trousers causing ball pain. Flat groin is specially important for crossdressers like me, but also for people in D/S lifestyle when you want to negate the manlyness of the submissive. Second: Semi erections are much easier to bare in small cages than in big ones! Morning boner in a big cage can be very painfull! I could add a lot of others reasons. but, as I'm not a psychanalyst, I'll not develop them!.
i had a cb6ks first and it split and hurt me and then Mistress got me a metal one with a tube that went in me and that hurt me as well and if you gonna has to have it on at nite time in bed as well for a long time its better if its teeny cos then you cant go big at all. so i has one now that's as small as i am and its nice and comfy and don't hurt me even in the mornings when i wake up.
As a person gains more experience with wearing their cage every day you will find that bigger isn't better. To keep everything nice and tight and compact Is more comfortable. I think almost everyone myself include has started with a cage that was to big and the morning erections have caused a lot of discomfort that a lot of people give up and stop wearing it. It takes time to find the correct fit which is usually smaller than you think, I know that's a little hard to believe for someone that's only been locked for a couple days but that's the way it is.
I would not recommend starting with a cage thats a lot shorter than flaccid penis. The longer you are locked your body does change. I started off with CB6000 and was lucky to get the right combination of ring and spacer first time. The largest ring and the smallest spacer however after a couple of months I had to go down a ring size. I went down 4 ring sizes before moving to the Mature metal Jailbird. I followed the sizing instructions from their site and got a perfect fit. The Jailbird is still in regular use and I have 2 of the small devices from the DHgate site. Both are shorter than the Jailbird after the initial stuggle to get them on the are quite comfy. It took up to 20 minuts to get them on and locked, now I can do it in 2 minutes. There is no way they would have fitted when I first started out in chastity. As I have said a hundred times or more its not a race take your time and get a good fit.
I guess you are asking me. I was close to 7" when erect and on my 114 Lb. frame, it looked bigger. My wife used to make me show it to her girlfriends and the wives of every friend of mine, plus my wife's friends, all touched it. Mine is very thick so it looked impressive. What happens is that when you gain weight you get what is called a fat pad. Basically your fat envelopes you penis so that much of it is inside your body. Your penis has spongy tissue that engorge with blood to make you erect and those tissues seem to be less efficient over time. I did not want my penis to get small. I used to like having intercourse and making the girls cum. Now I have ED from diabetes and take medications that affect me so I really do not care. My wife and I are not working towards a smaller penis. Most times it turtles completely inside my body and she can not find it. She makes fun it it as part of our play but we never discussed making it smaller and she would like it as big as it used to be because after 20 years, she wants intercourse again which is impossible now. I do not worship my wife or anyone else for that matter. It is just that after sharing me with other women for most of our 45 year marriage, I feel that I owe her and this is the first fetish she actually enjoys. For me, after 2-3 months I get a nice erection with the help of Viagra so that is my benefit. I did get circumcised at my wife's urging but it was not due to her telling me. More like I had some skin problems that would have healed but my doc said he could get the insurance company to pay for the operation so I figured why not. It solve one of my problems and made my wife happy.
Started out with the 6000s then the HTV2, now I'm in the HTV2 small. I find it very comfortable. I hardly notice I'm wearing most of the time. Maybe eventually get a metal cage, but I do love how my penis is completely covered in the tube with no exposure except to use the bathroom.