enjoying a jacuzi with my wife/HK last night and after a half hour in the tub i slipped out. the balls remained trapped and only slid out after much effort and a fair amount of discomfort when pulling on them. However i was just sitting there when the cage slipped off the penis. a stainless steel cage with a bit of weight, gravity always wins... my wife does not like the idea of a PA as she has reservations about it for whatever reason. however i believe if she truly embraces her role as KH that after last nights show of how insecure the ball trap devices are from pullouts, she may reconsider that security upgrade... my question is, with how little material the PA has of skin between the piercing and urethra, does the tugging on that stretch the skin over time? does it hurt when its tugged on? or when an erection happens? keeping it clean, is there added work?