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    I’m still relatively new to the site and after my girlfriend made me where the cage through the night for the first time last week. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on how to get through the night without waking up for your erections? Or is this something you just learn to live with?
     
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    Try to enjoy them...it will be "love and hate".
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    They do tend to stop after a while.
     
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    I do tend to wake up and it reminds me I’m totally controlled by my girlfriend but takes me a while to get back off . Does this make your feel the same?
     
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    Take some Alleve or go to sleep drunk. If you can't make it through the night drunk be in for a rough month getting used to it.
     
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    Okay thanks for the suggestions, I’ll give them a try.
     
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    A little of both. Yes, some people can role over, sleep on their side or come up with some other strategy for dealing with it. And, yes, if you stick with it, you will get used to it. Finally, in the experience of most of us longtermers on this site, they do lessen or even go away with time. I've been locked for most of the last 4 1/2 years, and I only occasionally am really awakened to the point of being annoyed anymore.
     
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    It does get better and usually getting up and taking a p helps
     
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    Yes, definetly, normally when I wake up with such feeling I might consider to touch myself. Now, this is restricted and there is no other way then go back to sleep.

    To catch up sleep again, I normally stretch my scrotum or go to the toilet. However, an hour later it is back again. This typically happens in between 4 a.m. till 6 a.m. After about 2 weeks 24/7 caged, the nocturial erections become less. It then looks like everything is getting used to the new locked situation.
     
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    Great thanks for the advice looking forward to it getting easier :)
     
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    No problems whatsoever sleeping with properly sized Evotion Wearables #8.
    Yes, the contents of the cage are hard in the morning, but not sore and not causing any problems.

    There's really not room for growing inside the cage, not lengthwise nor widthwise.
     
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    Okay so would this suggest maybe my cage dose not fit properly and I maybe need a smaller one?
     
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    Use a more contoured cage like the Holy Trainer V3. I used to wear a CB and I had the same problem that you describe.
     
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    I had a cb3000 and it was a world of difference going to the cb6000s for sleeping comfort
     
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    Great thanks!
     
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    Indeed.

    Too large base ring -> your badly behaving organ pulls your testicles when showing independence.
    Too small base ring -> no circulation of blood, your organ and testicles die and drop off eventually.

    Too large a cage -> your organ gets too wild and tries to rip off your testicles
    Too small a cage -> no blood circulation, oedemas and problems with hygiene, depending on the cage

    In any case, finding the perfect size cage and the ring (if such is used) is not necessarily a trivial task.

    A chastity belt is also good for sleeping as nothing is pulling your testicles.
     
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    #17 Ukpsion, Jan 9, 2021
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    that shows the importance of getting it right.

    To be honest I have no advice I have just started myself. But good luck my friend
     
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    Great thank you this shows the importance of getting it right thank you very much!
     
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    I followed the measurement instructions from Evotion Wearables. The basic idea is to have the internal dimensions the same as the flaccid size of your dick.

    I did my best when measuring and got it almost right: the cage would be better if the top shaft part of the cage would be 3mm shorter. This way the egde of glans would always be located better to match the hole/slot of the cage. Now it's perfect when it's warm, but if my penis wants to turtle, the edge of the glans may get too "back".

    To understand this, one needs to understand the EV#8 has a hole around the cage for the edge of the glans.

    So, internal measurements of the cage should match the flaccid size of ones penis. No room for growth is needed or desired.
     
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    Just get up and pee whenever your woken up with an erection. It usually takes me a week then I’m good and can sleep through.
     
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    THE WHOLE IDEA OF A CHASTITY DEVICE IT SHOULD MAKE AN ERECTION PAINFUL. ALL THIS SHIT ABOUT GETTING A BIG DEVICE SO IT WILL HOLD YOUR HARD ON IS BULL. I GOT THE VERY SMALLEST ONE I COULD I THINK IT'S CALLED THE NUB. WHAT DID YOU THINK IT WOULD BE LIKE? YOU CAN'T GET A HARDON, OR JACK OFF. IT'S CHASTITY NOT A CONDOM .AFTER A WHILE YOU JUST WON'T GET HARD. PART OF THE FUN IS BEING FORCED TO DEAL WITH THE DISCOMFORT . OR MAKING YOURSELF DEAL WITH IT. LEARN TO ENJOY IT . I DID.
     
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    If you wear the cage permanently, the parts of your brain that subconsciously control the erections may eventually adapt to the pain and turn the erections down.

    But as a beginner, you can't be expected to wear it permanently right from the start. For you, I guess, it's more of an on-and-off play.

    The easiest way to get rid of nightly erection pain or wakeups is to wear a full belt instead of just a cage.
     
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    I'm currently locked in a knock-off HT which fits like a glove. No room in the cage (width and length) and the basering fits perfectly, no escaping balls and/or chafing issues.
    Overall I think an almost perfect match...

    Sleeping is usually not a problem. Most night I can sleep right through to morning. Some nights I seem to get more heavier erections and while there is no room in the cage to grow.. it will start to grow at the base of the penis and pushes the cage out and starts to pull on the balls. Which is inconvenient but not very painful and I always considered it to be a "gentle" reminder of my position..

    Based on this, let say I would consider buying an new cage... what elements/measurements would you suggest I need to change to make erections less an issue?
     
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    THIS NOT A REPLY JUST 2 QUESTIONS AND I AM NOT SURE WHERE TO PUT THEM. FIRST HOW DO YOU GUYS DEAL WITH CHASTITY AT THE GYM ? IN THE LOCKER ROOM , SHOWERS AND SAUNA ? I AM NOT PERMITTED TO REMOVE MY DEVICE AT THE GYM OR HIDE IT IN ANY WAY NOR DO I SHOW OFF. I GO TO THE GYM 3 TIMES A WEEK. AFTER A WORKOUT I STRIP IN THE LOCKER ROOM , AND USE THE SHOWERS ( no curtains ) AND SAUNA NUDE. IF GUY ASK , I TELL THEM . I HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM , MOST ARE VERY INTERESTED BUT SAY THEY OR THEIR LADY COULD NEVER DO IT .

    ALSO IS THEIR A PLACE FOR NIPPLE CLAMPS IN LONG TERM CHASTITY ? HOW DO YOU USE THEM ?
    IF I AM ALLOWED ORGASM VERY TIGHT NIPPLE CLAMPS ARE ALWAYS IN PLACE OFTEN PULLED
    TOGETHER AT THE CENTER OF MY CHEST. THIS AND OTHER KINDS OF PAIN WITH STRESS POSITIONS
    ARE ALWAYS IN PLAY WHEN I CUM . I AM NEVER PERMITTED TO JUST LIE BACK AND JACK OFF
    OR GET A BLOW JOB . I HAVE TO EARN AND PAY FOR EVERY ORGASM. WHEN WE STARTED YEARS AGO
    IT WAS A LOT WORSE IF I REALLY REALLY WANTED TO BE UNLOCKED I HAD TO ENDURE AN HOUR
    OF ICY HOT OR BEN GAY RUBBED INTO MY COCK AND BALLS WHILE IN BONDAGE. THESE AND OTHER KINDS
    OF PUNISHMENTS WERE INTENDED TO MAKE ME WANT TO STAY LOCKED. IN THOSE DAYS I WAS A LOT
    MORE HORNY AND MY LADY LOVED TO SEE HOW FAR SHE COULD PUSH ME. 2 OR 3 WEEKS WAS A LONG TIME.
     
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    YES THE SMALLEST DEVICE WITHOUT DAMAGE IS THE BEST . I HAVE ONE CALLED THE NUB IT'S VERY TIGHT AND SMALL. MOST NIGHTS I DON'T FEEL IT AT ALL. IT WAS A KNOCK-OFF AND WORKS FINE .
     
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