Size and sexuality (size matters, we think)

I find that the smaller the cage the more desperate I get, and the smaller is much more comfortable.

I don't feel emasculated by the smaller cage since I confidently oozing pure maleness, and that's just what my GF loves.

 

i find a smaller cage more comfortable - well, one small enough that i will always pretty much fill it. if it's big enough that things can slide back and forth in it, that can lead to discomfort (though this may be a lot to do with me not being circumcised).

but there is a bit of a mental kick when you look down and see a small cage, especially for the first time.

 

My first couple of cages were a little bit bigger than I needed, just trying to find the right fit. Being able to get more of an erection in a slightly larger cage for me was bad and I found them more painful and harder to get rid of. The cage size that’s just right doesn’t allow me to get as hard which stifles things quickly and in the long run is more comfortable to wear and cleaner when going pee. I never noticed a difference libido wise for myself after wearing a slightly longer cage versus one that’s just right, I always feel like that caged animal. Funny how 1cm and make such a big difference psychologically.

 

I wear cages of different size and shapes for a variety of reasons.

Generally:

Smallest = most comfy to sleep in.
Mediums = easiest to pee in
Larger = more comfy during the day and best to be teased in.

The only thing that I don't care for are cages that leave a sizable gap at the end--those are obviously too large for me.

Same with base rings. The precise fit desired depends on mood and situation. Even metal vs plastic is a choice made upon choosing my day's device.

Do we try to make all of our clothing fit identically? Hardly.

 

Whilst the different in size is not significant to look at, its an important part of the fit.

One of the experiments I tried when getting the size for a custom build was to get a shorter tube (CB6000S). This felt immediately better. Then I tried putting a fizzy drink bottle cap, think it was Coke, not Pepsi, in the end of the cage which shortened the available space again.

And exactly as you've described it, or rather your Pete, its like its "nipped in the bud" so the erection doesn't get to start. It seems that the length starts first before the girth.

I wrote a thread about Small Cage Humiliation and whether it was a kink. I concluded that the smaller the cage, the prouder I was and how clever my Keyholder was at "taming the beast".

So ladies, size is important, or is that lack of size?

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I'll also chime in with the "smaller makes for a better fit" crowd. When I started 6 years ago, I had a cage with a roughly 2" tube. Since then, I have progressively gotten shorter and shorter cages to the point now where it's just a nub. The penis gets used to being in the smaller cages and accommodates the fit (which is not the same thing as "shrinking" that some claim). These are far better to sleep in for sure, and to me they're just more comfortable, I guess because my cock has gotten used to being in them. To me, they're also easier to pee in, and they make getting anything resembling an erection very difficult and painful, which is what my GF prefers. I certainly don't feel any more "emasculated" in a smaller cages than I do in a larger cage, though. A locked up cock that is unusable is a locked up cock that is unusable regardless of the size of the container it's locked in.

So, for some guys, they prefer to have a variety of cages for different times of the day. So, if you don't have a specific preference, and are fine with him swapping out cages, then it's no big deal.

 

my cages have got smaller since i first had one lock on me.

 

I find a bigger one is better for me and I'm just as horny as ever but pee hard ons still make it uncomfortable but that's the natural way it is so all is good from what I'm reading enjoy the journey

 

I started off with a huge cage thinking I needed the space, but pretty much every cage since has been smaller and smaller. I am definitely happier and more comfortable if I have no room to grow. I understand your comment about emasculation. I know you prefer the caged beast idea.

 

I posted my thoughts on this in #1429 of Sal's main journal.

 

I’ve down sized from 2.25”, to 1.75” to now 1.5” and it’s by far the most comfortable for all around wear. Easier to pee and keep clean, sleeping through the night without disturbance and long term wear.
I also find absolutely no difference in my libido or manliness feelings lol, and my Wife does enjoy seeing her property kept locked up smaller. She likes to tease me a little about it being so small in his cage and keeping it safe etc.
I think the only difference if we went back to using the knockoff Chinese cages we bought years ago that are about 4” long, is I’d just be in pain when the morning wood made the attempts.
My libido and psyche would still be the same as it is when I’m wearing any cage.