I am not that into feminizing my husband as my husband is a very attractive macho-looking and acting guy and I like that in a man, just as long as he knows his submissive place in our pecking order. I had to smile when I read "I think it is one of my wife's favorite parts of chastity. The seat is never left up lol..." Him leaving the seat down and "dribbling" or lifting it up and forgetting to put it back down after peeing are the reason I have made my husband sit to pee and made him do so for months at a time until I felt that he learned his lesson. I tried punishing him multiple times until his butt was raw but that did little to get him to mend his annoying toilet habits. But making him sit to pee worked like charm. I strongly recommend it even to those wives who don't make their man wear panties.