We have been using chastity off and on now for almost a year. Recently she has moved me to a very small cage and has been keeping me locked up for longer and longer periods. We are participating in locktober and I have only been allowed out briefly under supervision for cleaning. My penis has always been small ( under 4") , but I am concerned that it will not even be that big after being locked in a 1" chastity cage for so long. I am also concerned with erectile disfunction since it's been so long since I have had an erection. Should I be concerned?
Do you still get nightly erections? I assume so. So you know it still works. Any ED out of the cage will be down to anxiety and overthinking. Relax and enjoy your situation. There’s many on here that will be pretty envious of where your wife is at with it all.
I would not anticipate permanent shrinkage or erectile dysfunction. After long periods of lockup, it's normal to have a brief period of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. But it's nothing that won't resolve within a few days.
I doubt permanent shrinkage will happen but does it really make a difference if you're not using it that often? If you get frequent teasing while caged or uncaged, you can reverse erectile dysfunction. I had ED prior to chastity but now that my erections are limited, I have no trouble getting to attention and maintaining it when the opportunity presents itself. Not viewing porn and not being able to pleasure yourself whenever you want reverses ED.
I might be overly worried, but I am concerned. I have been locked since Labor Day weekend and have had zero out of the cage time. The past couple of weeks I have noticed a change in my testicle size (smaller as I have had ball slip outs more often). My sex drive has also declined. Typically I am a leaking mess of frustration, but just feeling sexually neutral lately. Also I haven't been awakened by a nocturnal erection in 2 weeks. I'm very curious how things will go when I'm unlocked on November 1st.
I know from personal experience that erection atrophy is a real thing. I have been wearing an Evotion Bijou for years. If I am unlocked and happen to get aroused, the area that the cage has covered is smaller in diameter than the rest of the shaft. I have read here on CM that is temporary and that if I were cage free for a week or two that the atrophied erectal tissue recovers to its original size. I cannot confirm this as I have not been cage free long enough to witness this empirically.
So far this year I have spent 3 weeks uncaged. Recently I was locked continuously for 120 days in a piercing attached cage, the key didn't go in the lock once. I was allowed out for sexy fun times twice for a couple of hours each and then locked again for another month before having a week cage free. My experience suggests that my cock was about 1cm shorter when hard but that returned. No problem getting hard. I'm mid-50s. Everyone's experience is different of course.
It will recover over time (but allowing for the ageing process which stops it getting so hard and therefore gives the impression of reduced size).
My Wife (KH) has had me wearing a cage for over three years. She still likes to see a hard, full penis. When she wants, she will allow me out of the cage, tie me up and then plays with my balls & penis. I get hard, but she won't allow me to cum. I don't think I'm any smaller and it still feels good to get hard. She teases me for her pleasure, has her fun, then lets me get soft and it's back in the cage. This happens maybe once or twice a month.
I listened to a podcast and they said that he unlocks for a few days during the month, just to allow nocturnal errections. Might be an option. I have heard story where I guy only got hard when he knew the cage was being put back on. Maybe breaks are good
Never had a problem with shrinkage or size during our peak years in chastity. Now my age and medications have started me on the path of ED, enlarged prostates and high blood pressure are long standing family issues. Once I started on blood pressure meds, my ability to maintain an erection is compromised even with some ED medications. Under the right conditions, I can still get an erection to make history, the majority of the time it gets firm but needs lots of attention to remain erect.
losing weight might help the blood pressure, but not a guarantee. I am actually in great shape for my age, all the rest of my blood work, stress tests, and physicals are great. Active and not under any stress, great sleeper, and out and about. Just the luck of the draw.
I hate to hear that! I have had high cholesterol for decades. We've been managing to keep it borderline with medication. And exercise, keeping my weight down, and eating better have helped my good cholesterol # very high! So they've been telling me I'm low risk. But I've found I still have very high levels of calcium deposits in my arteries and this has contributed to low testosterone, ED, and a low libido. I've found a wonderful treatment and therapist (my wife) who keeps me in chastity, teased frequently, and denied. My ED is resolved, my libido.... well, I feel like a 20 year old, and my testosterone is in the normal range which is great considering my age. Unfortunately, there is nothing that can be done for the calcium deposits except to treat me with meds to prevent it from breaking loose and cause a stroke or heart attack. Losing weight has helped me in a number of ways. That's how I got started with chastity. I needed an incentive to lose weight and not being allowed out of the cage was just the thing. If I knew where it would lead though, the incentive might have fizzled. I remember how panicked I was the first time I was locked knowing I wouldn't be able to access the key for two days.
Permanent shrinkage is a myth, it comes back, however erectile disfunction can happen but, usually it's du to ill fitting cages
Looked it up on a medical site, it says that it does happen whe the chastity cage doesn't fit right, I'm not sure what they ment or what their definition is, but there was some pictures and some were permanently disfigured
I once wore a kink3D narrow cage. My penis got hard over night, got stuck to the sides and pointed upwards. It was purple, took the cage off, two hard spots inside the penis and bend to the left. I trashed that cage and wearing MM Jailbird. Been taking supplements and rubbing oil on my friend. Things have gotten better, no more groin pain, no more pain errect, straighter and hard spots are not as big.
There is enough anecdotal support on both sides of this question that I think the best answer is maybe.