Should I switch to a medication that makes me anorgasmic.

My old antidepressant is not work well anymore. It tends to do that every 7 year or so. I know from past experience which AD causes impotence, anorgasmia or both. Please note that no matter the choice it will be an AD that has proven effective in the past but I quit taking due to sexual side effect. Being anorgasmic leaps at as being a great choice. I know that if I stop taking the pills for two days I can orgasm so every 2-4 months I can do that with no ill effect. I have ED so problems with getting erect already exist.

The ones that cause me to be anorgasmic seem like the logical choice since I only orgasm a few times a year anyway and my wife has always wanted to deny for for a year or longer. I am concerned that it is one thing to know you can orgasm but be denied and knowing you cannot orgasm due to medication and not your KH. It would make wearing a cage unnecessary and it may destroy our little chastity game. Then it is just not having orgasms. In the past my wife and our girlfriend would ride me until I was sore when I was anorgasmic. They loved it. I fear that since my wife knows I cannot orgasm, she will lose the enjoyment she has by edging me and giving me the occasional ruined orgasm. I guess she can still tease me but knowing I cannot orgasm usually takes the pleasure out of that for me..

I am not feeling bad, just no interest in things. I keep debating this in my head and one day I want to stay with what I have, but on other days, I lean towards the AD which causes me to be anorgasmic. No more cage and my wife will still control when I can take a sex holiday. I cannot help but think that medically induced anorgasmia is going to make chastity no more fun for either or us. I have a week and a half to made this decision and cannot decide. I see not benefit to the one that makes me impotent. I have ED anyway so it would be redundant. Any thoughts? Remember this is not switching meds for the sake of chastity play. It is having to chose another one with sexual side effects.

 

I am very susceptible to side effects. I should be on high blood pressure pills and Satins but they all gave me side effects.

People who know me keep telling me I should write a book. Maybe I will since I like to write. When you do not have kids you are free to do whatever you want. The gifts I was born with enabled me to excel in anything I had an aptitude for which gave me a lot of freedom in my professional life. The threesomes were my wife's idea. I never asked for a threesome.

 

I have decided to stick with the medication I am using rather than change. After much debate I figured that it is better to be able to orgasm and not than to not be able to orgasm at all. The latter would make Chastity a meaningless fetish to play. What I will do is tell my Doc to suppliment what I have with anti anxiety meds. See what he says.