Hey guys! On Monday I will hand the keys belonging to my holy trainer over to my new Mistress. My question to you is which A ring I should commit to. At the moment I am able to wear the two largest provided. Despite the largest one pinching a little when I first wake in the morning, I am today trying out the size down because I am worried the bigger one could become too loose after a couple weeks or even sooner than that. The size down which I am wearing now is noticeably tighter but it is pretty much bearable. Any thoughts from someone more experienced in long term chastity?
This isn’t going to sound very fun, but I suggest you wear each and find out which one suits you best for long term wear. That way when you do hand your keys over, You don’t have to keep bugging her to switch back and forth or get let out for device reasons. The easier and less complicated for her the better, and if she has to keep unlocking you for device issues, it will be a burden instead of fun. So get your device set and figured out , then hand her the keys when you’re ready. Good luck.
Thank you^ that does sound like a good idea. Although I don't think I could get into the smaller sizes available if I tried. I will keep the one I have on tonight (second largest) and go to sleep in it. If I can get to sleep alright and get through the night without it disturbing me I will go with it. If I had longer to test I would but I have booked to see her on Monday so I don't want to cancel with short notice
Do yourself a favor and get some aspercream. If you don't have the sizing just right it deadens the discomfort. Keep it next to the bed for the first night threw but be careful. It works so good at stopping any pinching feeling that you don't tend to look at what can be a problem. Nothing worse than a ring burn
Yes over Time I moved to a smaller ring -- I also in time moved to a small metal cage -- and been better - I have picture showing both cages
Yeah I think I might start off with the bigger one. I woke up in the middle of the night last night with very noticeable pain and had to take my cage off. Does anyone know why this tightness seems to only be a problem immediately after or during sleep?
Yea it does that. I've pulled it off in nighttime agony too. Get up and go wee wee. The little guy will go back into his spot and he will sure be there to do the same first thing in the AM. Do the same, it's worked for me. I'm finding the more I read, in the beginning it takes a load of patience to get sizing right and get accustomed to things. As a newbie I'm putting the time into it as I can and giving myself a push and sticking to it. Just some old fashioned determination.
I will try that next time. This was close to agony though.. the larger one hurt in the morning but didn't wake me up in the night and I was able to keep it on. But the size down I think was too much. I may have said already but I'm just worried the larger one will come loose after a few weeks wear as my balls get smaller. But I don't think I can cope with the size down.. it hurt too much!