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    #1 Sub_kjm, Nov 17, 2016
    so my wife/princess is currently 7 months pregnant and can't have penetration....
    so am telling her this morning about a dream of when our kid is born and at the grandparents
    she goes to town with a full day torture session.... and she thinks it's a fantastic idea....
    should I be worried about this dream coming to reality
     
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    #2 Wendygirl, Nov 17, 2016
    Yes I should think so.

    After giving birth and looking after the baby feeding etcetera. I would imagine it will be the first thing she will want to be up for.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #3 Jessica Alexander, Nov 17, 2016
    A woman's prolactin levels are very high after childbirth and libido usually remains very low for a while, especially as long as she is breast feeding.
     
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    #4 Wendygirl, Nov 17, 2016
    Exactly thus playing may be well down her list of things to do !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #5 Mistress Jules, Nov 17, 2016
    Certainly after I had my daughter the last thing I was thinking about was anything sexual, I just wanted to sleep lol
     
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    #6 maid_carrie, Nov 17, 2016
    Hence the male fallacy that unprotected sex is safe while the mother is breastfeeding!! Doh!!!
     
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    #7 Dumb1, Nov 17, 2016
    ITS A FALLACY??????????? oh damn it thats where i went wrong! it explains the slap! thanks for the info carrie 40 yrs too late.
     
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    #10 Lady-A, Nov 27, 2016
    I'm thinking that's probably what I'm in for.... lol. First child and I may even have to have a c section due to complication hence the no penetration. Not even orgasm. It's frustrating as hell, will just have to see what I'll be up for when I get the "all clear" lol.
     
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    #11 Shepherdsflock, Dec 23, 2016
    I wouldn't worry about it. Much worse than that becoming a reality is the very strong probability that your wife won't want to do anything sexual after the birth.

    We had a baby 5 months ago, and my wife had pretty much no interest in anything sexual at all. From the birth until about two weeks ago I went through one of the roughest times in our eight year marriage. The sexual void after a birth was hard to handle before chastity with our other kids back when I could masturbate to keep my sanity. But this time I was locked up and had no way to relieve my frustration and no encouragement from my wife.

    Finally about 2 weeks ago my wife started being interested in sex again, and our sex life is getting back to normal.
     
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