Should females have some pubic hair and be males shaved ?

Well, at first she was not in love with pussy hair shaving, she does not found it convinient and does it to please me in our life before the FLR.
It was like an obligation for her to seduce me but she don't like it. Please note that we are together since 32 yars and in FLR since 4 only, I was dominant before.

When we engage on FLR she was free of the obligation to seduce and to please me by aestetics. She goes to a look and shape more natural to her. This included her pussy hair. I have to deal with, I have also mine because she found it better and like it.

That does not mean she does not respect her and she shave hers legs but she is far from the image of the leather dominatrix. She look like a gentle nice cat lady, knitting on her sofa gently.
Despite the look she is a real dominatrix, in a gentle femdom but she still dom and rules.
And it is a global package, I can't chose an half FLR or her to be dom in 50% of the time. I have to deal with her view of FLR and hair and sexuality and so and be sure I am happy with. I read around that many men has no right to have sex anymore with her mistress, or rarely, it is not my case.
but yes, she keep her pussy hairy and I have to love it with all of her and in fact it doesn't change a lot.

 

My wife hates me being shaved!

 

It sounds like the two of you have a good thing going on but there is just something off about you saying that, “she is free from the obligation to seduce and please me aesthetically.”

 

She started trimming decades ago and began trimming me around 8 years into our 39 years. We trim very close with electric trimmers . She found shaving a pain and although she did for a bit had me shaving.

I had terrible times with ingrown hairs and never found a working solution. She liked it but the red spots and festering hairs she hated. Finally settled into very close trimming. The only shaving now is face an balls and penis hair. Don't know why bot very rarely get ingrown issues there.

With restart if chastity don't know is cage contact will effect areas directly.

For decades I have done it cause she liked me not having gorilla hair . This may change if she decides different.

Although my son inherited my thick body hair in fact is worse than mine. She often has remarked about it of course that's his choice. Although she has in occasion remarked he could always trim it.

He's married now but guess she either likes it or has not pushed him forward trimming off course they have only been married a few years. Things change in this world. He knows she keeps mine gets trimmed due to her saying I manscape for her dislike of heavy body hair.

Groom to whatever a couple finds works in their particular relationship.

 

My Wife did many things in our early years to meet my fantasies and it what she thought I wanted for her to be sexy to me. Part because of social stereotypes and what was considered duty as her upbringing in that timeframe.

She and we have learned is no ones else's business what and how we enjoy our life and she is not duty bound or otherwise required to do or perform for my needs or pleasure as my Wife.

Our relationship is an great thing and is still evolving. The road is not always straight or smooth. Our journey continues.

 

i think is not related at all with dominance, is just a woman decision.

 

I agree with subcukold's_WIFE. While males being hairless is a must to show your little pathetic clitty's .

 

What she thought you wanted or what she believed society taught her to think you want vs what you do actually want is sort of what I was thinking about. Sounds like you don’t want her to meet your fantasies and that is the fantasy of a FLR in many ways. To deny you what you want is actually what you want. A rubix cube.

 

It is a complicated formula. She has told for years it was what I wanted. We both have grown and changed our focus of priority. All I hope to do is earn back her trust to allow us to be close and have contact. My concern now rebuilding trust so she will allow me close. If all she wants is a cuddle or massage to happy. I just want to be able to provide it.

Our crossroad now she is declared we may go to separate beds. I am working to show her that is not needed.

She is giving me the chance to show her there is are working options to satisfy her concerns. Over the next 2 weeks I am on vacation from work to focus on her tasks as she dictates them. I earned that my meeting her quest given to me during last week working bussiness trip.

She now continues her challenges for me to meet. I can see already my next 2 weeks will be busy.

 

So many questions but I can’t derail another thread I must wish you well on your journey for closeness and hope that the household policy on pubic hair is one that you can both live with

 

Details in my journal Vanilla to Owner.

 

Same for me and my wife. When we started going FLR, she stopped shaving because she found it uncomfortable to do. She has a full bush now which is not my preference but it makes me feel submissive when I eat her pussy. I keep myself shaved bare all the time as that's her preference. So she decides for both of us.

 

One day she might change her mind.

 

That's of course fully up to her, but I've never got the impression that she will change her mind. In fact she told me a couple of times she is very happy with her decision to stop shaving, as she only did it to please me. Her bush makes her feel more dominant and she says it saves her a lot of hassle as she doesn't have to shave or trim anymore.

 

It does require time and effort. Sounds like you're going to be in the rough.

 

She hasn't shaved or trimmed for more than five years now. I don't expect it to change anymore. I have gotten used to her hairy pussy.

 

Adapt and overcome. Best wishes

 

I know it's her choice and it makes me feel submissive especially when I eat her pussy. Even though it's not my preference, I don't mind it. I think it shows dominance because she does what she wants and she denies me what I used to got and what I really like. But I can fully understand it's easier for her not to shave, and that she has decided for herself that she keeps a full untrimmed bush.

 

Lady knows best! Always!

 

I can relate to this post as well.

Now that my wife has a full bush, giving her oral sex has definitely become less comfortable for me. Her whole pussy is covered by hair, it tickles, and every now and then I get a loose hair in my mouth. And her untrimmed pussy doesn't look as nicely as when she was shaved bare. I still can remember of how pretty her shaved pussy used to be, to see that pretty pussy now covered with an big unruly bush of hair is a massive change. I guess it would be different for me if she would at least have kept it trimmed, but it's just a full natural bush, not shaved or trimmed for more than five years now. Something I previously only had seen in 70s porn.

But my wife is comfortable with her full bush. She says she is very happy with the decision not to shave or trim anymore, and she doesn't consider going back to shaving or trimming again. She is very confident of her bush and feels empowered by it, and she likes not having to care anymore about how her pubic area looks like. When I eat her pussy she likes to tease me by telling me how happy she is with her bush and how hairy it is, knowing very well that it's absolutely not my preference.

 

She should have what She wants. Hair if She wants it and none if She doesn’t. It is Her decision. men should be smooth all over from head to toe.

 

Yes Mistress

 

I can't possibly imagine how hair at one's groin would make one more "dominant."

I've encountered bullies, warlords, criminals, bad guys, leaders, managers, superiors, and a number of alpha type characters, and have yet to ask one of them for a view of their groin in order to determine if they are, indeed, dominant. I've yet to have one ask me if I'm shaven in places nobody can see, either.

My wife prefers not to shave, or shaves on occasion, as she doesn't like the prickly feeling , and she prefers that I'm either freshly shaved, or not shaved at all, as she doesn't like to make love to a cactus.

Shaving is a matter of preference, hygiene, and comfort. If one feels it makes one dominant, I guess that falls under preference.

 

We've settled on close trim for balance of smooth like without the time and trouble of shaving. except for my sac.

Hair comes back softer and no stubble effects.

 

There is of course the visual aspect. Especially if the woman has pubic hair and the man doesn't. In our society, it's still more common that women shave and men are hairy.

And then there's the aspect of preference. If the woman decides for her partner how he should keep it, yet her partner has no say in how she keeps it, it can be dominant especially if she chooses to ignore his preferences. Personally, I prefer my wife shaved, and she kept is shaved for years. But since we're in a FLR she keeps a full bush although she knows very well that I don't like that. She tells me that I should shave because she likes that, but she doesn't care about my preferences and keeps it the way I least like it. For me, that's a sign of dominance.