Should every couple practice male chastity?

Goddess Lucy in your empire it would.

 

While I believe that chastity must be consensual, I feel that it would benefit males immensely and make them more respectful of women in general. In our female-controlled marriage chastity is mandatory and while I am not caged I obey my wife's edict that I am never allowed to touch my penis, even to urinate. All of my sexual release comes from pegging and anal milking, which serves to deepen my submissiveness and docility.

 

Oh, for fuck's sake.

 

There is a backstory.

 

No. They shouldn't.

For the simple fact that we are not cookie cutters - we are human beings. Some may seem more like automatons or minions, but that's a different subject entirely.

I know for a fact My exes couldn't have handled it. Frankly, I wouldn't have been interested in locking them in the first place.

In My opinion, chastity is a privilege. Something to be earned. Certainly not something that will work for everyone, regardless of which side of the lock you're on.

 

love the caveat "for awhile"

 

Does a male being' kept in chastity' mean the state of being chaste whether or not he is presumably kept locked 24/7/365.

Surely diferent women would want 'chastity' to mean different things and as in most things in reference to the needs and wants of women those different things of an individual would for most in their view e fully entitled to be almost, if not, always subject to change.

There are doubtless some women that would not want lock their male and might play with him to some extent most days and some that could happily to point of indiference lock their male and other than for the odd hygeine or medical matter never bother themself about that part of his anatomy again, or even want to have him nullified. And of course any other scenario one might imagine inbetween all possible extremes.

 

Chastity is clearly a growing a trend. The rise of female power is certainly growing. I believe progress is being made that leans towards female leadership. Although at the moment this is not for everyone Male chastity would certainly lead to greater work ethic and things would work better in the home too. Anyone lucky enough to be locked by their significant other is very lucky indeed. I think the worlds would be a better place if all males were locked. The new possibilities of engineering and technical breakthroughs would be endless

 

I guess women should work towards it but dont force it upon the male. I havent been locked up for a year yet but coming to that date.
Speaking for myself. The first day I was the one who locked myself and gave the keys to my wife. She is the one keeping me locked. After a couple of days I wanted it off. She didnt.
She would tell me to give it a couple of more days and then she would remove it. Well other than cleaning it dosent come off, but whats funny is that I dont mind it anymore. She points out that since I have been locked that the changes in me have been good and life in general has been better for both of us.
She is right. She may be forcing me to stay locked but the way she did it made it not bad but good.
So if a woman wants to have her man in chastity then the slow methodical approach might almost make the man think that it was his idea and be more accepting of it.
I never wanted to be locked up, but now that I am , I think its for the best. I think all men would benefit being locked up. Just like L-U-C-Y said basically its a matter of time.

 

I'm guessing that it's usually the male's idea and that the female comes to understand the benefits. I volunteered to be caged and my wife refused because my micro-penis is too tiny for her to worry about. But if she ordered me locked I would happily comply.

 

I agree. Our marriage now is female-controlled in every aspect. I wish that it had been so from the beginning.

 

I hesitate to post more on this subject as I’ve said what I set out to say.

But since were following this well into fantasy territory :

We’re all happy to have our other halfs lock us up. Most of us suggested it to them anyway.

But how would it be if this were inforced like is being suggested? Every man would have to be locked up. What about those that refused? What about the ‘wife’s’ who refused to lock their husbands up? What about those without partners? At what age would this start? Puberty? Birth? Who would hold the keys of those men without partners? Who would check every man was locked? How would we breed as a species? Would you restrict certain men to reproduce?

The government is already pushing ‘the will of the people’ onto us here in the uk. I can’t think of a worse thing.

I’m an advocate of Male chastity, I helped create ‘Male chastity day’ I want to let others know about it yes.

We have no place in our society to push your Kink onto some other person just because you think it’s a good idea.

 

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Well said, @keyheld.

 

So consent shouldn't be required, because greater good? I'm sorry, but i would have to disagree, ii believe every person has the right to choose what they do with their own body.

 

Oh, thank you for clarifying, and I'm sorry for assuming you were in favor of forcing it on people. The post you quoted mentioned forcing, hence the assumption.

 

I agree that it could benefit society, so long as it is a choice. I doubt forcing it like taxes would see benefits. It certainly is more than just a kink, as i recently found out

 

When I’m locked up, and my wife teases me, and turns me on, and tortures me a bit, deliciously...
It feels soooo nice!

I honestly have a hard time imagining a man who wouldn’t like it!
Yet realistically, I know a few wouldn’t like it; and many more who could love it, would feel to much shame in letting go of their “male status”, as society has conditioned them into thinking that being a “real man” is everything...
So much Bullshit.

Yet, I can’t help thinking that with the right KH, firm and kind, loving and caring, teasing and playful, a majority of men would love Chastity.

 

Every child/teen that doesn't want to go to school feels forced when they have to. Just like any man who wouldn't want to be locked in chastity.

It doesn't matter how society sees it. Society has been wrong before. See slavery, the persecution of homosexuals in Russia and the middle East etc...

 

If I could wave a magic wand, I'd change society so male chastity was normalized. If all men thought it was totally normal to lock up at puberty, as normal as getting a driver's license, as a sign of manhood and growth-Can you imagine how the rates of violence around the world would plummet? I can't even fathom it. No men raping women or each other, less aggression so less war and gang violence. It would be a miracle.

I think chastity IS normal and has been part of religious and cultural values for hundreds of years, it's just the cage that's taboo. It's normal to only have sex with your spouse.

Just a thought, but why should keyholders do all the work of spreading chastity? Men can share the good news of how much chastity has improved their lives. "Get a friend to lock up" campaigns, etc.

 

Which I'm absolutely against as well. I am a firm believer in personal liberty in all things for everyone.