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    #1 L-u-c-y, Oct 19, 2019
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    How much of the fetish lifestyle is just joining a fetish site and copying what others do like sheep?

    For instance If you had never seen anyone else licking someones boots would it ever occur to you?

    I'm constantly bombarded with messages from men saying they want to lick my boots and heels, it's like they have no imagination, they just copy what they have seen others say, or following some script of a predictable femdom story.

    Things like kneeling before a superior is a logical thing to do, animals show deference to the leader of the pack.

    Serving and doing useful things is logical.

    I wonder if there are fetishes that no one actually enjoys, but both sides just do them because they have seen others do them and they think "it's the thing to do".
     
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    Quite right. They are just cliches. Everything has its cliches. Like in crime fiction it's always a dog walker who finds the dead body. It's either laziness or people who don't know what they're talking about and just copy.
    Lazy or fraud. Neither is worth bothering with. Which, of course, you don't...
     
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    A lot of human behavior is copying what others do. It is a form of imitation.
     
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    Yes, but quite often it has a point and a useful purpose :)

    Bootlicking is completely pointless, it doesn't clean the boots, it covers them in spit and germs.
     
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    It could also be viewed as a form of grooming or preening. The fact that it fails at that by your judgement does not affect the intent.

    But, in this case you also have two things that feed the fetish. One, the lady's foot. Two, the lady's boot or shoe. Both of these objects have strong fetishistic appeal which can drive many males to engage in pointless or counterproductive ventures.
     
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    There are many things I would do if required. But thinking of licking boots doesn't really turn me on.

    I think there are many guys who are like that. Trying to get off to things that they are "supposed" to enjoy because they saw it in a porn. Unfortunately you seem to be a magnet for them.

    But there are guys out there who know themselves and what does it for them and what doesn't.
     
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    Do you put footkissing in the same category?
     
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    Well I joined the flock when I discovered chastity! Never heard of "male" Chastity before. But once I came across it (been through the details in other threads) it didn't take long to pluck up the courage to talk to Mrs Chaste. Now here we are 6 years down the line and I'm safely under the control of my shepherdess!
     
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    Why lick only boots though? What about them is appealing? Nobody ever licks a woman’s mittens or their handbag.
     
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    It makes no sense, it's like saying "Please may I lick your phone?"

    I don't want any of my things covered in spit and germs, especially a strangers.
     
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    Nothing like a woman wearing a nice pair of boots! Definitely a turn on, one which I think most blokes agree on! As for licking, no thanks!
     
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    Personally unless is going to give pleasure to someone, I’ve no interest in licking anything (certainly not boots, phones or any other inanimate object). Mind you I don’t like the thought of licking or kissing feet either, I love a good shoe or boot don’t get me wrong, but not to the point of having a foot fetish.
     
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    That would be just weird wouldn't it :)
     
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    yes just a little (0:
     
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    Isn’t almost everything we do been done somewhere or sometime in history?
    Chastity isn’t new.
    Female Dominance isn’t new
    FLR isn’t new.
    Having a slave isn’t new.
    Gay sex isn’t new.
    Cross dressing isn’t new.

    What is something New?
     
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    I mean, that goes both ways, right?

    Some subs like bootlicking, others don't.
    Some dominants (both women and men) like having their boots licked, others don't.
    Some submissive men like having their dicks locked in cages, others don't.
    Some doms don't like chastity play, etc.

    I once read about a fellow who liked to stick bobby pins in his urethra, then jerk off so that they shot into the air like little bottle rockets. Now, I can't say I was inspired to try that little stunt upon reading about it, but I guarantee someone else was, and they had never thought about trying it before. (Maybe someone reading this will be so inspired!)

    I don't doubt that some folks haven't thought beyond the stereotypical tropes of kink, but if it works for them...I guess my point is, as long as it's not hurting anyone (non-consensually) I'm not sure I'd ever question someone else's fetish or kink, within certain obvious boundaries of course.
     
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    I feel I have the right to question their kinks when they bombard me with them :)
     
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    Fair point. I'd also guess that if you offered to let those men catch your car, so to speak, 95%+ of them wouldn't know what to do with it or would run away screaming. ;)
     
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    Catch my car? Is that some bizarre fetish I've never heard of? :)
     
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    Dogs like to chase cars, but if one were to actually catch a car, it would probably get a lot more than it bargained for... :)
     
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    licking inanimate objects doesn't make them feel any better (at least that's my presumption) - so I fully agree with Lucy, it more likely might derive from that good old movie "Quiet Days in Cliché" :D
     
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    I would like to offer my services this winter to you. I will lick your car clean when there is to much slush/salt on it.
     
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    I totally understand boot licking if it is an act of genuine dominance on the alphas part. It just seems like the groveling way that it is done is where people get icky about it. Maybe subs could passionately kiss the boots instead of lick?
     
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    My madam loves getting her boots or shoes kissed and licked by me or another sub.and I love doing it to!
     
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    I fear @L-u-c-y you may get inundated with more new weird and wonderful (or not so wonderful) requests lol
     
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