We live around an hour apart and we see each other most weekends. She has both keys. Last weekend she didn’t bring the key with her and she found it very empowering. This week she bought a kitchen timer/safe and today put the keys in, and set the timer for 999hrs. I haven’t been unlocked for 3 weeks already and now it looks like I won’t be unlocked for another 6 weeks. 38 days is currently the longest I have been caged without being released so this is intimidating. I'm already desperately horny and really miss having erections. Seems she is serious haha. What has your KH done that has surprised you and demonstrated they mean business?
There was a moment when she stopped feeling sorry for me and just assumed the power I wanted her to take from me. It was wild to KNOW that she would let you out for sex on the weekend or if you whined enough to go completely the other direction. ...but honey, I've been in the cage for over a month now! "Not long enough yet. You've gone longer than just a month."
I’m also serving my longest lock up by far. Previous record was just over a month. Now I am just shy of 4 months! The difference is unlike you I do get let out for cleanings about once a week and when she wants PIV which isn’t often, I think 3 times so far. do you know what kitchen safe you have. The one I have max time is 10 days
Hello Bound4life, we have this one: https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Multi-purpose-storage-prevent-control-excessive/dp/B07XKMZXL7?th=1 Here 999 h are possible.
As a matter of curiosity, do you experience the transformation in your behavior suggested in the 33rd episode of « obedient love » podcast about the benefits of long term chastity?
i would find it exciting knowing she was visiting and i didnt know if she was bringing the key or not
Impressive girlfriend, at least she knows what she wants. At least do you enjoy it? is it something you initiate or she initiate? It is hard to go tha tfar from beggening I guess you have tried shorter time together first, I hope so. Good luck then. usually after 2 week all goes better and your body forget what is an erection but I undestand your pain.
Mrs Chaste has a keysafe screwed securely to back wall of the walk in wardrobe! The keys to me are kept safely locked inside. She has been known to "accidentally" forget to take them with her on holiday! Funny how she never forgets about the strap on and vibrator!
One time several years ago, my wife was given some incorrect information about me and decided space was required while she sorts things out in her head and can verify my side of the story. She took 2+ months to visit her clients and stay with our 2 kids on the west coast. Naturally, she took one key with her and left the second key with her girl friend who is an outright lesbian. Her gf treated me like crop on a good day and weekly inspection were brutal and there was no way I was going to steer talk her into release. My wife did eventually find out I did not lie and was completely innocent, but 100 days past before she was able to return and release me.
She has a similar 999hr/41 day plastic one, which she set to 999hrs. She is now looking for one that she can set a date/time on rather trying to figure out, and she wants it in steel now haha.
I did enjoy haha I initiated it and we did short locks and then one 38 day lock before Christmas, and she wants to do 4 months minimum. I enjoyed weekly unlocks for sex and tease/denial A LOT but she has been reading books and blogs more recently and has convinced herself that a long time with zero unlocks is what she wants.
We're doing a similar process to Viola Voltairine, I believe. Long initial lock, with lots of meditation and exercise. After the long lock is lots of edging and no more ejaculating at all. The aim is for orgasm without ejaculation, and then to explore orgasm though meditation and Taoist internal alchemies. I haven't had a proper orgasm for around 6 months, just a couple of accidental emissions so we're well on the path of semen retention. 2 years ago I would jerk off probably 5 times a week. I have experienced some changes... I am calmer and slower with how I think. I'm definitely not in a rush. I no longer have symtoms of depression or the wild mood swings I would sometimes experience. I am more focused. I am not yet in control of my thoughts but I do feel as though better control of my thoughts is on the way. I feel a little more aware. My view towards women has gradually changed. I no longer feel as though I objectify women (as much).