My wife and I have been playing with chasity since March 2020. I am the one that wanted to try it, and she was willing to play along. Up until i would lock myself up and she would tease. But always take my cage off within 12 to 24 hrs and have sex. last night she found her dominant side and informed me that I wasnt getting unlocked for the duration of her period, which she has threaten before but never acted on. Now here I sit two days later still locked with no end in sight. I'm not sure this is what o really wanted??? But then again I'm horny has hell and I am kinda liking it? Which scares me!! Has this happened to any one else? I would love to here from the females did you flip your switch all the sudden?
I'm very much at the first stage of your timeline, as much as a week or more is fantasy, could I really do it? Not sure, but with my gf eating more into it, I'm not sure it will be long.
Hi, I know what you mean by feeling "horny as hell and liking it". I have the same feeling, which is not what I expected. My journey is different to youra at the moment. I started to get interested in chastity a few months ago but was unsure how to get started. My wife has been away since lockdown started so I thought I'd see if it might work for me (could I wear a device long term). I bought a device (well 2, same style, different sizes) and gave it a go. Did it all wrong, put it on day and night which didn't work. Started again a bit more sensibly, more issues around chafing, urination so stopped for a while. Mid May I started again and today is my 14th day. During this time any arousal, as you say makes you feel horny and I get more satisfaction than orgasm - which is final. I have only taken it off once to shave. I plan to take it off later today and leave it off for a couple of daya. Then I'm aiming for a month. For me, crunch time will be when my wife comes back as I plan to ask her tobe my keyholder. Not looking forward to that conversation as she is not adventurous.
Sounds like you both are having some fun! Chastity can be used as sex play for 1/2 a day or day or two. More serious play time is longer. The psychological effects kick in after a few days and you start getting that "high" you read about. From what I read and m on experience, the high comes about in a few days. When I am locked, we do it for at least two weeks straight, wife has grown to enjoy those times.
Altho playing with chastity can be fun, the progression with wife or KH depends more on how they take to it. If they're too vanilla, it may remain a game or play stage, But for some, it will click and become way more, maybe even lifestyle. so just be sure what you push for.
You are right of course. What i am looking for is a power exchange, what I get may be someting different. At the moment, my wife and prospective keyholer may not want to go along with this, or may have a different idea of what happens next.
Change of plan . Was going to release after 14 days, but have decided to carry on. let se where we get to..