Sexless or exclusive?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by lockedhusband11, Sep 16, 2019.

Top Posters
Random Thread
  1. lockedhusband11
    Offline

    lockedhusband11 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2019
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    425
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #1 lockedhusband11, Sep 16, 2019
    How many here are locked by their KH's to keep their orgasms exclusively for intercourse with them and how many are locked with their KH's plan being to make sure the sub never has sex again?
    When we started, I believe the plan was to keep me horny until intercourse but now it's almost certain that She will have no intention of ever releasing me, especially not for sex.
     
    Rectrix and Chaste J. like this.
  2. Bucklocked
    Offline

    Bucklocked Member

    Joined:
    Feb 11, 2019
    Messages:
    18
    Likes Received:
    10
    Trophy Points:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Saddle and Harness Craftsman
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Lakeland Florida
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #2 Bucklocked, Sep 16, 2019
    I am locked by my Mistress, there is no plans for any sexual contact. Strictly BDSM relationship.
     
    lockedhusband11 likes this.
  3. Dogtanian69
    Offline

    Dogtanian69 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 6, 2019
    Messages:
    298
    Likes Received:
    474
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Produce aclerk
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    East Texas
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #3 Dogtanian69, Sep 16, 2019
    I’m locked to keep my orgasms for my Wife, when she does let me out it usually ends up being for a day or two in which time I’m drained to the point where I’m sore, dry, in pain and deriving no pleasure at all from it...... I am so ready to be locked again, BUT I’m not allowed to beg for it. I promise you, other than to clean and shave I have NO interest in touching my genitalia
     
    gingers_sub, Ma’ams Slut and lockedhusband11 like this.
  4. young88
    Offline

    young88 Long term member

    Joined:
    Dec 17, 2011
    Messages:
    382
    Likes Received:
    276
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    4:38 PM
    #4 young88, Sep 16, 2019
    Initially it was to keep me horny and ready whenever D required PIV sex. Now after many years it's purely an FLR where D has the orgasms and I am no longer permitted.
     
    gingers_sub, My-submission, Sexy Slave 69 and 3 others like this.
  5. Conrad3
    Offline

    Conrad3 Long term member

    Joined:
    Jul 3, 2019
    Messages:
    154
    Likes Received:
    134
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Epos Engineer
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Bucks
    Local Time:
    7:38 AM
    #5 Conrad3, Sep 17, 2019
    Exclusive at the moment but who knows
     
    lockedhusband11 likes this.
  6. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    697
    Likes Received:
    1,038
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #6 locked_top, Sep 17, 2019
    What a fun question!
     
    lockedhusband11 likes this.
  7. Erika and Peter
    Offline

    Erika and Peter Active member

    Joined:
    Sep 4, 2019
    Messages:
    94
    Likes Received:
    285
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Chapel Hill, NC, USA
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #7 Erika and Peter, Sep 17, 2019
    We actually stopped having penetrative sex almost two years ago. We started caging just under one month ago to reduce his frequency of orgasms through masturbation, and to prevent erections.
     
    Surrendered, gingers_sub, 296512741 and 5 others like this.
  8. Blue00
    Offline

    Blue00 Member

    Joined:
    Jul 17, 2019
    Messages:
    230
    Likes Received:
    359
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Professional
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #8 Blue00, Sep 17, 2019
    Exclusive. I now rely on her completely for any release. I love how much closer I feel to her as a result. Since abstaining from any self-pleasure, I have found we have more frequent encounters than before. Also, I appreciate intimate, non-sex moments such as sitting together, hugging, and snuggling more
     
    My-submission, Drews, Ma’ams Slut and 2 others like this.
  9. R2002
    Offline

    R2002 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 28, 2017
    Messages:
    853
    Likes Received:
    976
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Attorney
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #9 R2002, Sep 17, 2019
    Exclusive but after 3 years gradually moving in direction of sexless
     
    gingers_sub, Ma’ams Slut and lockedhusband11 like this.
  10. Rectrix
    Offline

    Rectrix Long term member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2010
    Messages:
    2,689
    Likes Received:
    5,926
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    US East Coast
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #10 Rectrix, Sep 17, 2019
    I'm in chastity to stop my masturbation and to assure that my libido is directed solely into my marriage. We're both too sexual to stop, but I've admitted I need her control to achieve the intimacy we both desire.
     
    b_quark, R2002, Miffy and 2 others like this.
  11. madams-sissysub
    Offline

    madams-sissysub Member

    Joined:
    Apr 30, 2009
    Messages:
    12,350
    Likes Received:
    6,707
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    nurse
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk (west mids)
    Local Time:
    7:38 AM
    #11 madams-sissysub, Sep 17, 2019
    I’m kind of in between here, I am locked 24/7 and am not permitted any intercorse with my madam, she only has sex with her bull. But I am permitted anal stimulation with her permission, and also madam will peg me and use toys on my ass, just no penile stimulation or contact.
     
    soforo, gingers_sub, Sexy Slave 69 and 2 others like this.
  12. lockedhusband11
    Offline

    lockedhusband11 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2019
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    425
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #12 lockedhusband11, Sep 17, 2019
    I think that counts for one in the 'Sexless' group
     
  13. Tom Allen
    Offline

    Tom Allen Member

    Joined:
    May 16, 2008
    Messages:
    2,297
    Likes Received:
    11,675
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Southern New England
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #13 Tom Allen, Sep 17, 2019
    Responsible opposing opinion here: Mrs Edge and I always end up p[laying for long terms. Since she actually does enjoy both the idea of keeping me locked up, and PIV, she prefers that I wear a strapon. In our way of thinking, we're both having plenty of sex -- in fact, more than we used to 10 or 20 years ago.
     
    locked_top and lockedhusband11 like this.
  14. R2002
    Offline

    R2002 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 28, 2017
    Messages:
    853
    Likes Received:
    976
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Attorney
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #14 R2002, Sep 17, 2019
    And orgasmless for 7 month
     
  15. lockedhusband11
    Offline

    lockedhusband11 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2019
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    425
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #15 lockedhusband11, Sep 17, 2019
     
  16. Tom Allen
    Offline

    Tom Allen Member

    Joined:
    May 16, 2008
    Messages:
    2,297
    Likes Received:
    11,675
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Southern New England
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #16 Tom Allen, Sep 17, 2019
    I know what you meant. I was trying to present a different perspective. ;)
     
    lockedhusband11 likes this.
  17. Susanstoy91
    Offline

    Susanstoy91 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2018
    Messages:
    916
    Likes Received:
    2,966
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Retired
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Northern Ontario, Canada
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #17 Susanstoy91, Sep 17, 2019
    PIV stopped a few years ago because of my Wife(KH) age. It hurt her and she didn't enjoy it anymore. We still masturbated and did oral for our orgasms.
    My Wife(KH) just enjoys having control over me and my orgasms. Sometimes she makes me cum after two weeks of being locked. Sometimes it's a lot longer. She will tie me up, tease me for awhile, then unlock the cage, make me cum, then lock me up again until she want to see me cum again. She teases me by telling me she needs to see and touch my erection. And that she wants to have my penis in her mouth. Sometimes it just talk, but it keeps me guessing what will happening. So I'm locked for my Wife(KH) pleasure. It's not for PIV and I'm not sexless, I guess. My sex now is a ruined orgasm when she feels like it...And I look forward to whatever she allows me to have...
     
    amareine, Sexy Slave 69, Dogtanian69 and 1 other person like this.
  18. Drews
    Offline

    Drews Long term member

    Joined:
    Apr 5, 2018
    Messages:
    349
    Likes Received:
    728
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Florida, USA
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #18 Drews, Sep 17, 2019
    Locked to keep orgasms only for her. Without my uncontrollable jerking anymore it has also made us a lot closer with being closer including cuddling and back rubs. My mood is better and focused more on her which has resulted in more intercourse than we ever previously had.
     
    Notouchy, lockedhusband11 and Rectrix like this.
  19. b_quark
    Offline

    b_quark Long term member

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2011
    Messages:
    728
    Likes Received:
    1,500
    Trophy Points:
    113
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    12:38 AM
    #19 b_quark, Sep 17, 2019
    My wife has made it clear I will never have sex again. And she has stuck to that. We had PIV sex once in the last 2-3 years, and that was over 400 days ago. But I'm not completely denied orgasms. I am unlocked periodically and allowed to masturbate, sometimes with specific orders about how, to what, having to ruin it, etc. Ive come to understand that she will only touch my penis when it is locked, for teasing, which she very much enjoys. If I am very lucky she might allow me to masturbate in her presence. I very much enjoy that!
     
    My-submission, Susanstoy91, Sexy Slave 69 and 2 others like this.
  20. amareine
    Offline

    amareine Long term member

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2019
    Messages:
    241
    Likes Received:
    202
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    france
    Local Time:
    8:38 AM
    #20 amareine, Sep 18, 2019
    same for me

    She likes to hang my penis, She likes to have it in Her mouth
    i'm locked not to touch myself, not to be tempted for another woman.
    the more She teases me, the more i want to be locked
     
    b_quark, Chaste J. and Susanstoy91 like this.
  21. My-submission
    Offline

    My-submission Newbie.

    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2019
    Messages:
    196
    Likes Received:
    293
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:38 AM
    #21 My-submission, Sep 18, 2019
    I think I am in the exclusive camp. We are less than 6 weeks new into this. I got PIV on the first week and have been used for PIV once since. The odd thing is I feel closer and more loving and intimate towards her.
     
    Chaste J. and Susanstoy91 like this.
  22. Susanstoy91
    Offline

    Susanstoy91 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2018
    Messages:
    916
    Likes Received:
    2,966
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Retired
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Northern Ontario, Canada
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #22 Susanstoy91, Sep 18, 2019
    This morning, after my Wife(KH) allowed me to dry hump her bum for 10 minutes, she got up and unlocked me and said I could have an orgasm. She was licking & sucking my balls and I guess I was enjoying it and taking too long. She just stopped handed me back the cage and told me to lock it back up. By this time I was leaking and so close...She watched me lock myself back up and said maybe next time I won't try to enjoy it as much and just take what she gives me...A quick, ruined orgasm...
     
    amareine, b_quark, gingers_sub and 2 others like this.
  23. Chaste J.
    Offline

    Chaste J. Long term member

    Joined:
    Dec 14, 2017
    Messages:
    2,128
    Likes Received:
    3,013
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    7:38 AM
    #23 Chaste J., Sep 18, 2019
    What a wonderful wife you have
     
    lockedhusband11 and Susanstoy91 like this.
  24. lockedhusband11
    Offline

    lockedhusband11 Long term member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2019
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    425
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    1:38 AM
    #24 lockedhusband11, Sep 18, 2019
    Two nights ago in bed with my Wife She teased my cage with Her hand then turned and pushed Her butt into it and I humped Her with my cage, She could tell by my moaning and grunting I was desperate. I begged Her to let me give Her oral sex, She said "it's too late for all that now. Time for sleep"
     
    Ma’ams Slut, b_quark and Susanstoy91 like this.
  25. gingers_sub
    Offline

    gingers_sub Junior Member

    Joined:
    Oct 1, 2008
    Messages:
    416
    Likes Received:
    952
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Gravenhurst, Ontario, Canada
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    2:38 AM
    #25 gingers_sub, Sep 18, 2019
    I have not been allowed PIV sex with my wife in over 15 years. Mostly just denied sometimes in chastity.
    My only relief has been jerking off. Just before being locked up I was enjoying using our DrHo TENS unit to force an ejaculation. I was really enjoying that. It was intense! I am missing it these days like I used to miss blow jobs and fucking.

    Just over 3 weeks in new device and am hoping for a Real Long period of no ejaculations what so ever.
    Loving the conflict of wanting to cum so bad and the desire to remain unsatisfied and horny.

    My wife has had no interest in my orgasms for years so I may get what I wish.
     
    Susanstoy91 and Ma’ams Slut like this.
(You must log in or sign up to post here.)
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Accept Learn More...
    Dismiss Notice