Sex and Chastity

dr Andrea · Mar 10, 2021

enslavedbyc said: ↑

The reason for my original post is, that in my opinion, the average male interested in chastity does not seem content to let a woman do it "her way", and what I hear from many women is that they don't want a limit on how much sex they have from their partner. What their partner expresses is a desire to have their orgasms controlled (but often in very restrictive confines and often not allowing for PIV unless via a "bull" , a vibrator or a dildo.

I have done long term denial a few times with my wife (due to her curiosity). It does NOTHING for her. She likes control. To her a chastity device is just another form of bondage.

I was just curious how many others are content to be locked in chastity (quite a bit), but have sex (quite a lot) solely at her discretion.
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We do!
My wife likes to have sex , and she doesn't like not feeling my orgasms for a long time
otherwise she likes a lot oral sex between ...

Ron33 · Mar 10, 2021

We do, when she wants it. For us, male chastity is used to cut down on my masturbation.

enslavedbyc · Mar 13, 2021

Ms Angela’s Sub said: ↑

Reading a lot of responses that seem a little condescending.

I can say that our situation is evidently not hard core chastity and I don’t guess I would want it to be. My wife, Ms A controls the keys and hence controls my releases. Sometimes it’s once every 2-3 weeks but sometimes it’s 2 or 3 in the same week.

Every couple has their own reason for exploring and engaging in chastity. For us it was simple. I asked her to take control and use me as little or as often as she likes. As it turns out, once she took possession, her libido increased. We flirt more, we are closer, we communicate more, and I am certainly more attentive to her needs. This is a direct result of masturbation no longer being an option...hence keeps my attention focused on her.

Every chastity relationship is different....and should be. It doesn’t have to be 18 months without orgasm. The one who holds the key, holds the power...and it SHOULD be an enjoyable and sensual experience for both parties.
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I could not agree more with your last paragraph. Well said!

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