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    Hi all. I'm new to CM today and new to starting a thread too! I usually lurk on other similar sites with the aim of picking up bits of useful information and ideas that I can use when needed. One thing I'm struggling with though, and have not yet seen discussed (it's possible I could look harder...) is the topic of background music.

    I would usually hand the task if making a playlist for while we're away together over to my sub. He is very romantic however and listens to a lot of love songs which aren't really my taste and inappropriate in a situation where I'm taking a very dominant role.
    Would anyone like to share what background music they use or suggestions that might be good.
    Of course music is subjective, and we all have different scenes and ideas, but I love finding new music and it plays a really important part in our relationship.
     
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    Hello Ms Amanda and welcome :)
     
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    I really wish I had some useful advice. My wife finds any kind of music very distracting during our intimate time, so we never have any music.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion. Sure music choice is whatever you feel is right at the time, whether it be AC/DC, Beyoncé or Frank Sinatra :)
     
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    Welcome. Great question. We like exotic romantic background music that's not pop and doesn't distract from the mood, and have a stack of discs in our cuddle zone, including Azam Ali, Lisa Gerrard, Enya, Amelia Cuni, Sheila Chandra, Brian Keane, and Loreena McKinnett. Enjoy.
     
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    Welcome! It depends on what the background music is for, but generally speaking the heavier rock/metal works for me!
     
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    Hi welcome rock works for me every time.
     
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    I love Goth music, Sisters of Mercy, Jesus and Mary Chain, Siouxsie
     
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    Hello Ms Amanda,

    I'm a great lover of using music to set the tone of pretty much anything. My wife hates the distraction though. Have you considered something like Clubbed to Death by Rob D or Into the House from 28 Days Later. Freedom to Move is also good for the same kind of build. Ludovico Einaudi could also provide an interesting juxtaposition.

    Hope they are of interest!
     
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    Being a fan of Alice In Chains, I would image that would work. If he needs a love song you could go with Metallica’s Nothing Else Matters. Personally I’m not into the new music of the day so don’t have newer recommendations. Welcome to the Mansion and good luck with your playlist.
     
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    Hi @Ms Amanda and welcome to the Mansion. I don't know how long you and your sub have been together but I would imagine if the two of you have been together for awhile then he should know your tastes in music. You should tell your sub to put a play list together for your taste in music and if it's not to your liking, have him make another till he makes one with your approval. It could prove to be quite fun to see how well your sub knows you and your taste in music.
    Just a suggestion from another sub. Again welcome and have fun.
     
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    Hello, lady are most welcome here and your experience is something that we are really looking for.
    I'll be happy to learn how do you began chastity or domination and how it goes with your friend.

    On music my Lady is full metal.
     
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    hello @Ms Amanda and welcome to here and I hope You like it here.
     
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    Thank you for these suggestions...its led to some interesting ideas for me.
     
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    Hey there, unfortunately I don't have Spotify.. I'm an apple music kinda girl!
     
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    This could be a good idea in the future. For my next trip away though I want to use music as an emotion builder while my young man is
    Hello and thank you!
    I'll enjoy having a browse through these.
     
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    Hmmn
     
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