Hi all. I'm new to CM today and new to starting a thread too! I usually lurk on other similar sites with the aim of picking up bits of useful information and ideas that I can use when needed. One thing I'm struggling with though, and have not yet seen discussed (it's possible I could look harder...) is the topic of background music. I would usually hand the task if making a playlist for while we're away together over to my sub. He is very romantic however and listens to a lot of love songs which aren't really my taste and inappropriate in a situation where I'm taking a very dominant role. Would anyone like to share what background music they use or suggestions that might be good. Of course music is subjective, and we all have different scenes and ideas, but I love finding new music and it plays a really important part in our relationship.