So what do you want from the experience? Just denial or more? Say loss of control? I sort of like denying myself - i self lock, but also would love to feel the total loss of control that having someone else in charge of my keys would bring. But i'm also very sub, so it plays into it too. Just depends on what you want.
Probably loss of control...you don't have that when you self lock...I can do whatever and try to arouse and torture myself but when it's all said and done there's nothing stopping me from unlocking...
So do something that removes your control. There are several apps out there you can use to lock your keys in a lockbox (they hide the combo from you). And if you do it right, something like Chaster lets everyone else decide how long you're going to be locked up ... would that work?
It's a challenge to self-lock. Distance yourself from the keys - leave them at work, mail them to yourself, hide them some place miles from your home, invest in one of the timed lock boxes, and/or use on of the online locks services.
use a combo locked box.put it on chaster and the combo will not be accessable. take the box to a bank and put it in a safety deposit box to which you have the key. even if the chaster gives you the combo you still have to wait for the bank to be open
I got home today, and am laying in bed next to my wife. I am locked. She didn't put it there. The keys are on the nightstand next to me, by the Glock that serves as the nightstand bump-in-the-night pistol. While in the field this last go around, my wife told me that when I got home, I'd be on my knees at her feet, unclothed, invited to make two solemn vows; one of lifelong unconditional obedience, and the other a vow to never have a sexual release again without her direction or permission. She may have changed her mind, and says she isn't decided, now. The device remains in place. Doesn't really matter who put it there.