I self lock for reasons different than many. For years, I’ve ejaculated multiple times per day. Im trying to work into “saving up” my orgasm and have bigger better ones while throwing some kink in the mix. I’m looking for an online/phone or even occasional in person cum coach. Someone who can encourage me to stay locked up and at the same time, keep me hard in my cage. You’ll set my schedule for release, etc. We’ll work out the details . To each his own, right? I’m not looking for a Domme, looking for a coach!