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self Chastity

Discussion in 'The Play Room' started by rebeccacd404, Sep 22, 2017.

  1. Hi,
    I am doing this in secret and my wife doesn't know! She wouldn't approve at all. I have bought a pretty pink cb3000 and have put myself in Chasity, I can of course release myself at any time but I am persevering to go as long as I can...3 days and counting. It's not easy hiding this at home or at work but I can be quite secretive....and sneaky....lol I guess I am just looking for encourgment.
     
  2. I would encourage you to speak with your wife about it. Secrets don't usually end well in a marriage. Why don't you think she would approve?
     
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  3. A book that was very helpful for my wife and I was Georgia Ivy Green's book on setting up a FLR. She does a wonderful job of explaining it woman-to woman. I am locked up today in part because of her very written books (and her blogs which we follow).
     
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  4. I understand your position Rebecca, my situation is similar but I love the feeling of being caged. Luckily I get time alone a few times a year when I can wear my cb6000s 24/7 for days at a time.
     
  5. Hi,
    Many of us have had a lot of fun in chastity, and also made plenty of mistakes with communication and negotiation with our wives. I wish we could give you all the wisdom we've accumulated by making mistakes.

    I think at this point, you are not in much trouble as you could explain what you've been doing as like an "initial experiment", something like "It's somehow a hot idea to think about me doing this, and lots of couples do it, and so I decided to test it and thought maybe I'd realize it's not my thing. But actually, its kind of interesting. Most use it as a way to let the wife play with more power in the bedroom or in the relationship."

    One big problem I had was getting too wedded to specific fantasies that are common in chastity stories and porn, and working them into my fantasies, and then hoping my wife would take that role. Actually, each keyholder is quite different in what parts they enjoy, and it's best for the male to be very flexible and patient and let the partner slowly experiment and find what they might like about it. If you can get them to play in any way, then possibly it would be more acceptable if you end up wearing it even more than they know about.
     
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