Self Bondage

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    I do love bondage. It heightens the feelings of frustration and loss of control that goes with chastity controlled by others. Bondage is best when applied by by Mistress but when she is not there, self-bondage has to do.

    That gives additional challenges with safety and controlled release. The most successful arrangement I have to date is as follows.

    The equipment includes two lengths of light chain, with clover clamps at one end and 50gram fishing weights at the other. Also, handcuffs, rope, string, dildo and workman's “A” trestle. My boy clit is properly caged.

    I begin by queuing an hour or so of porn on a laptop. I fix the fishing weights above my head to a low ceiling beam, via a self release arrangement of loops of string and a slip pin. Pulling the pin allows the weights to fall. A length of string hangs from the pin to about head height.

    I tie a crotch rope with a loop behind, near my coccyx and the final knot in front of me. The dildo stands vertically on the trestle held in place by gaffer tape..

    The key to the handcuffs is place well out of reach. I lube up my boy pussy, stand astride the trestle and sit down onto the dildo. I put one clamp on each nipple and shorten the chain until it tugs upwards if I stand with feet flat on the floor. I attach one cuff to my left hand and pass the second through the loop in the crotch rope. Once the second cuff is attached I know my only release will be by pulling the slip pin and allowing the weights to fall. I know the my nipples will suffer. My heart beats harder as I click the cuff to my right wrist.

    I am now helpless. The laptop plays porn showing sissy maids being humiliated and punished – strong women caning helpless men – men being bought to orgasm and cumming on sissy faces – on girls shaven fannies – on their Mistresses boots. I need to cum. I squirm on the dildo. I hump myself as hard as I can within the limits of my bondage. My nipples hurt more as I pull down on the clamps to push hard on the dildo but nothing takes me over the edge.

    The hour passes; the last movie ends; the screen saver kicks in and the laptop goes dark. My nipples are hurting bad. I need release but I can't yet face the pain of the falling weights. I bend my legs to test how secure the claps are but they hold fast. The more I pull the more the clamps bite. I try to reach around with my hands but the movement is restricted by the cuffs and crotch rope loop. There is no release other than by pulling the slip pin.

    My heart is fluttering as I take the slip pin string in my teeth and pull. The loops stretch but the pin does not move. I stretch my neck and bite the string a little higher and rotate my head downwards. I feel the pin slip but nothing happens. It still has some way to go. I think of the coming pain and my nerve gives way. I look around to see if there is another way to achieve release...... Nothing.....

    I stand there for minutes more but eventually say to myself “I can't stay here forever – pull your sissy arse together and be a man” I stretch my neck higher still and take the string in my teeth. I move my head slowly but as I feel the pin slip through the loops I get scared again and stop. “No – keep going” I look up and see the pin is on the very edge. The next move will cause the weights to drop. My stomach is one flock of butterflies. Do it. I move my head just a little more. The string between my teeth goes slack. The tension in my nipples slackens. I see the weights falling - so slowly falling then BANG. An enormous burst of pain simultaneously on both nipples. The weights drag the clamps off my nipples and now lay on the floor. I'm desperate to hold them touch them give them a soothing rub but my hands are still behind my back. I round my shoulders. Why do I do this????

    But now I can move. I climb off the dildo, reach the key for the cuffs and release my hands and at last cup my chest.

    I have “enjoyed” this scenario several times. The release is simple reliable. I can share details with anyone interested. I just wonder if the pain would be greater if the clamps stayed in place instead of pulling off. Maybe a lower drop or a little less weight. I need to experiment.

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    You have gone to a great extent to master your art. I'm just curious that your Mistress doesn't do it to you more often than your release isn't under your control. Very Exciting.
     
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    Opportunities to play are limited by having a school age child at home.
     
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    Mr S has some self bondage toys that you put water in and freeze. As the ice melts you eventually can get free.

    I've seen similar setups that people have made using PVC pipe.

    The creativity of some amazes me.

    So while I'm not sure if I'm bold enough to try any of them, I'd say play safe and understand the risk!
     
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    Thanks for your reply. That explains a lot. We never got really serious about Chastity untill the nest was empty, it does make it a lot easier. You have very interesting photos. I would like to see one when your all tied up but I guess that's not possible if your tied up. Thanks again
     
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    Please give a link for me s.
     
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    https://www.mr-s-leather.com/

    It's a gay oriented BDSM shop in SF that has all kinds of cool tos, clothes etc. they also have a women's shop I believe it's Madam S.

    Anyway if you're into bondage or any othe kink it fun to check out. Just be aware of the gay content if that's something that might shock you.
     
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    [QUO TE="tomf_22033, post: 216542, member: 12014"]Mr S has some self bondage that you put water in and freeze. As the ice melts you eventually can get free.

    I've seen similar setups that people have made using PVC pipe.

    The creativity of some amazes me.

    So while I'm not sure if I'm bold enough to try any of them, I'd say play safe and understand the risk![/QUOTE]

    I agree, ALWAYS be very careful with self bondage. Nothing over your head or in your mouth that could restrict breathing and test your release setup a few times to make sure it works flawlessly. You didn't really explain your "Pin & Loop" system very well Suzy, and the short description sounded a little confusing. What concerns me with those type string or rope setups is they have a tendency to catch or get knotted thus leaving you stuck. I have always been fond of the ICE MELT setups. If done correctly they are very reliable. I'm sure you tested your system Suzy, but with a school age child living at home it might not be a good thing to be found stuck. Please understand, I'm not preaching, just a reminder to be cautious. :)
     
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    Hi boisub,

    I've used the sunlight method, it was OK. But, like you, my default preference was ICE! I devised many variations of this method. They kept getting better and better (and safer) each time I used one. One question did come to mind when you mentioned using plastic QUART bottles...did you ever go into a weekend session using gallon bottles? I even bought a 2 gallon red plastic gas container and used it just for ice bondage techniques. If done properly, with forethought and testing, a self bondage scene can be a real trip.
     
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    I just got some self bondage spread eagle straps from bondagewebbing.com. Damn they work perfectly.
     
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    Ouch is right. They usually pull of my nipples then hit the floor. It hurts. Sometimes they stay on the nipple so I have continued pain of the suspended weight. Worst is that my hands are locked behind my back so can do nothing to relieve that pain until I manoeuvre around to get the key and unlock myself.
     
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    Anything stopping you from bending your knees to help stop them weights from pulling?
     
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    Should I film myself and post the video?
     
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    why not
     
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    Went back and read the intro again. Now I have a better picture.
     
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    Subs have a balance between pain and humiliation. Those on the humiliation side want less pain, and vice versa, though many want both of course. This is Vaguely self-bondage -- mostly humiliation, and can be done alone or, perhaps best under supervision from your top -- original inspiration from someone on the internet. Now from my experience as well -- have tasked subs to do this and done it myself. You put the release mechanism in a public place at a far end of the area and have the person walk towards it in a compromised state. The original example was a public restroom or under the bench in a shopping mall at the far end of a super-mall from where they are dropped off. Another is a very large public park (like Central Park in New York).

    You can do to yourself of have done to you. You can be in a jacket or sweater with hands cuffed in front through the pockets, which are slit inside so your hands meet in front. Then the jacket is buttoned NOT zipped up. Jacket or sweater with pockets has to be something person can reach through when time comes. You just have to keep your hands in your pockets until then as it were. Drag is a must if male. Assignment can include loud vibrating buttplug and shorts or short skirt and pantyhose or thigh highs and very high heels to make this difficult to pull off. To keep buttplug IN recommend too-small women's or even girl's swim trunk bottoms. Combined with, say, cb6000 this can increase / create discomfort on balls. Too bad.

    Slutty lipstick and attention-getting clothes etc. Perhaps the jacket or sweater is almost off the shoulder and just buttoned enough to cover the hands. Additional impediment: put pads on your bare butt -- those back pads for a sore butt. They slowly extrude a ben-gay solution which becomes too much on your gluteus maximus. You are in bondage anyway, but can also use a light chain and padlock instead of a belt -- can do that when going to work too, even under a large regular belt, if chain and lock are small. This means no bathroom break all day, itself a punishment, and you get a "chemical spanking" which only becomes noticeable after a few hours, so put it on well in advance. Can go on nipples too.

    Have done with women with the bra partially showing and some fresh cum on the hair forehead. When arrive at key to handcuffs the problem is how to get it without being noticed too too much. Kneel, grab from where taped under bench quickly, go to restroom nearby, wait until a lull, get in stall, release. If key in toilet no issue. Backup strategy! if key is gone is to walk home, go in back door you left unlocked, use key at home. Downside is that this is a long way, leaves car at mall, you are in public, same problem as before, embarrassing.

    If there is a top involved, you can be assigned to flirt a little with someone x people on the way to your key. Or to buy something if you can reach the counter through the buttoned jacket with cash already in your hands, keep the change. Can testify you will be so excited that cage will be full, better not be the kind with spikes inside. Try to walk normal despite plug inside you! Enjoy.
     
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