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Self Bondage

Discussion in 'The Play Room' started by suzy maid, Aug 9, 2017.

  1. I do love bondage. It heightens the feelings of frustration and loss of control that goes with chastity controlled by others. Bondage is best when applied by by Mistress but when she is not there, self-bondage has to do.

    That gives additional challenges with safety and controlled release. The most successful arrangement I have to date is as follows.

    The equipment includes two lengths of light chain, with clover clamps at one end and 50gram fishing weights at the other. Also, handcuffs, rope, string, dildo and workman's “A” trestle. My boy clit is properly caged.

    I begin by queuing an hour or so of porn on a laptop. I fix the fishing weights above my head to a low ceiling beam, via a self release arrangement of loops of string and a slip pin. Pulling the pin allows the weights to fall. A length of string hangs from the pin to about head height.

    I tie a crotch rope with a loop behind, near my coccyx and the final knot in front of me. The dildo stands vertically on the trestle held in place by gaffer tape..

    The key to the handcuffs is place well out of reach. I lube up my boy pussy, stand astride the trestle and sit down onto the dildo. I put one clamp on each nipple and shorten the chain until it tugs upwards if I stand with feet flat on the floor. I attach one cuff to my left hand and pass the second through the loop in the crotch rope. Once the second cuff is attached I know my only release will be by pulling the slip pin and allowing the weights to fall. I know the my nipples will suffer. My heart beats harder as I click the cuff to my right wrist.

    I am now helpless. The laptop plays porn showing sissy maids being humiliated and punished – strong women caning helpless men – men being bought to orgasm and cumming on sissy faces – on girls shaven fannies – on their Mistresses boots. I need to cum. I squirm on the dildo. I hump myself as hard as I can within the limits of my bondage. My nipples hurt more as I pull down on the clamps to push hard on the dildo but nothing takes me over the edge.

    The hour passes; the last movie ends; the screen saver kicks in and the laptop goes dark. My nipples are hurting bad. I need release but I can't yet face the pain of the falling weights. I bend my legs to test how secure the claps are but they hold fast. The more I pull the more the clamps bite. I try to reach around with my hands but the movement is restricted by the cuffs and crotch rope loop. There is no release other than by pulling the slip pin.

    My heart is fluttering as I take the slip pin string in my teeth and pull. The loops stretch but the pin does not move. I stretch my neck and bite the string a little higher and rotate my head downwards. I feel the pin slip but nothing happens. It still has some way to go. I think of the coming pain and my nerve gives way. I look around to see if there is another way to achieve release...... Nothing.....

    I stand there for minutes more but eventually say to myself “I can't stay here forever – pull your sissy arse together and be a man” I stretch my neck higher still and take the string in my teeth. I move my head slowly but as I feel the pin slip through the loops I get scared again and stop. “No – keep going” I look up and see the pin is on the very edge. The next move will cause the weights to drop. My stomach is one flock of butterflies. Do it. I move my head just a little more. The string between my teeth goes slack. The tension in my nipples slackens. I see the weights falling - so slowly falling then BANG. An enormous burst of pain simultaneously on both nipples. The weights drag the clamps off my nipples and now lay on the floor. I'm desperate to hold them touch them give them a soothing rub but my hands are still behind my back. I round my shoulders. Why do I do this????

    But now I can move. I climb off the dildo, reach the key for the cuffs and release my hands and at last cup my chest.

    I have “enjoyed” this scenario several times. The release is simple reliable. I can share details with anyone interested. I just wonder if the pain would be greater if the clamps stayed in place instead of pulling off. Maybe a lower drop or a little less weight. I need to experiment.

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  2. You have gone to a great extent to master your art. I'm just curious that your Mistress doesn't do it to you more often than your release isn't under your control. Very Exciting.
     
  3. Opportunities to play are limited by having a school age child at home.
     
  4. Mr S has some self bondage toys that you put water in and freeze. As the ice melts you eventually can get free.

    I've seen similar setups that people have made using PVC pipe.

    The creativity of some amazes me.

    So while I'm not sure if I'm bold enough to try any of them, I'd say play safe and understand the risk!
     
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  5. Thanks for your reply. That explains a lot. We never got really serious about Chastity untill the nest was empty, it does make it a lot easier. You have very interesting photos. I would like to see one when your all tied up but I guess that's not possible if your tied up. Thanks again
     
  6. Please give a link for me s.
     
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  8. https://www.mr-s-leather.com/

    It's a gay oriented BDSM shop in SF that has all kinds of cool tos, clothes etc. they also have a women's shop I believe it's Madam S.

    Anyway if you're into bondage or any othe kink it fun to check out. Just be aware of the gay content if that's something that might shock you.
     
  9. [QUO TE="tomf_22033, post: 216542, member: 12014"]Mr S has some self bondage that you put water in and freeze. As the ice melts you eventually can get free.

    I've seen similar setups that people have made using PVC pipe.

    The creativity of some amazes me.

    So while I'm not sure if I'm bold enough to try any of them, I'd say play safe and understand the risk![/QUOTE]

    I agree, ALWAYS be very careful with self bondage. Nothing over your head or in your mouth that could restrict breathing and test your release setup a few times to make sure it works flawlessly. You didn't really explain your "Pin & Loop" system very well Suzy, and the short description sounded a little confusing. What concerns me with those type string or rope setups is they have a tendency to catch or get knotted thus leaving you stuck. I have always been fond of the ICE MELT setups. If done correctly they are very reliable. I'm sure you tested your system Suzy, but with a school age child living at home it might not be a good thing to be found stuck. Please understand, I'm not preaching, just a reminder to be cautious. :)
     
  10. The sun will rise in the morning (most likely) and ice will eventually melt (almost always). Those are the only two release mechanisms that I’ve ever trusted for extended self bondage sessions. By extended I mean overnight sessions, where I was tied spread eagled on my back, completely unable to escape until a certain amount of time had passed.

    The sunlight method was to do the final locking of each of my wrist cuffs to the bed with chain and a combination lock. The combinations to the locks were written right on the backs of the locks themselves, but until daybreak there was no way to see any numbers on the back, much less the dial. I tied myself up a couple of times that way.

    I later came up with a variation on the ice lock, which I preferred because it enabled me to wear a blindfold or mask.

    My ice method was to freeze padlock keys in a one-quart plastic bottle that I then attached to the base of the bed frame, with one bottle on each side of the bed. Each key was suspended in its bottle by a strong thin rope, the other end of which was tied to a point near where my wrist cuffs were attached (using the padlocks, naturally).

    Once I was fully secured, I could easily reach either rope to pull up the key, but that wouldn’t do me any good until the ice melted enough that I could pull the key free. This was usually around 6 hours, depending on how quickly I could get myself tied down after taking the bottles out of the freezer. As self bondage methods go, it seemed at the time to be relatively foolproof, since having two separate mechanisms provided some redundancy in case of a broken or tangled rope, or a key getting somehow bent, or any of the dozen things I imagined going wrong, or the hundreds of things I never thought of that could have gone wrong. But like any self bondage activity, it was pretty risky.

    I also sometimes made it riskier for myself by the elements I added to the bondage. One time I wore a ball gag underneath a locked-on hood. The hood had a mouth opening that the ball could push out of a little bit, but there was absolutely no way to push the ball out of my mouth, even slightly. I began to really regret that decision about probably half an hour after locking myself down. My lips were kind of compressed between the front of the gag and the inner surface of the hood, and the best I could do to make my jaw more comfortable was to draw my lips back into what I visualize as a kind of rictus, and shift the ball into two or three different positions with my tongue to vary how I was biting down on it. All in all a most uncomfortable night, and it took a day or two afterwards for my teeth to feel like they were settling back into alignment. I never felt like my breathing was in danger, but I had made a very rash decision to do that, without trying it first, and if my breathing had been impeded I would have been in very serious trouble.

    I sometimes made other dangerous additions to the basic setup that I don’t need to go into here, but the bottom line is that self bondage is inherently risky. I knew that when I did it, and it didn’t stop me because there didn’t seem to be an alternative for me to get what I needed at the time. And I’m sure that will also be true for some people reading this. Funnily enough, despite the high stakes, I never had any close calls during these extended sessions, whereas I had quite a few during my younger days when I did more impulsive stuff with belts and bathrobe ties and such. I don’t know if it was planning or luck (most likely some combination of the two) but I got through okay.

    Well, this got pretty long when all I intended to say was that ice is a good release method. And I definitely share the safety concerns expressed by @Retiredinaz@Retiredinaz. I would add that dismounting the horse sounds potentially dangerous with hands so well secured. I know people will do SB despite the risks, maybe even because of them, but everybody please think things through carefully and try not to add to the risk.
     
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  11. Hi boisub,

    I've used the sunlight method, it was OK. But, like you, my default preference was ICE! I devised many variations of this method. They kept getting better and better (and safer) each time I used one. One question did come to mind when you mentioned using plastic QUART bottles...did you ever go into a weekend session using gallon bottles? I even bought a 2 gallon red plastic gas container and used it just for ice bondage techniques. If done properly, with forethought and testing, a self bondage scene can be a real trip.
     
  12. No, I never tried that. It sounds super intense. One reason I never did (apart from the many difficulties in arranging for such a long absence from day to day life) is the matter of access to the ice. Tied to a bed, it’s impossible to get to the ice to make it melt faster. If I could move around, particularly if I had drinking water to work with, I wouldn’t be able to resist the temptation to mess with it. And I wouldn’t want to be tied down to a bed quite that long - at least not unless I had someone looking after me.