Seeking Keyholder for Accountability

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    Hello, I'm seeking a keyholder to hold me accountable for my goal oriented chastity. My goals currently are to loose weight at a challenging rate, open up about my kinks/fetishes online (Posting pictures, joining groups, just generally being more healthy and open with myself about my kinks instead of living in denial (Yes, I understand denial to prevent denial, "real original hyuk hyuk hyuk")).

    I'm not looking for anything sexual, it would be nice to know what who I'm working with looks like but not necessary. What I would like to do initially is have a discussion about what would be the best way to go about this, and see if there is a reasonable way to go about this. To get started some of my considerations are accountability, honesty, communication, failure, success.

    Accountability, there needs to be some sort of negative reaction for failing, disappearing, etc. Possibly outing here as a fraud? Or on places such as fetlife, twitter, or perhaps such a verbal roasting that the subject feels entirely defeated. (And since I think it'll come up after the last sentence, no that is definitely not a kink of mine, I very much seek validation and avoid harsh criticism at all costs). I think honesty works into this one as well, perhaps daily validation of the plastic seal which can only be removed by being broken.

    Communication, daily or every few days, whatever really.


    Anyways this post is long enough for the moment, please feel free to pm me if you didn't want to post publicly.

    Thank you
     
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    I only view enforced male chastity as a sexual fetish. I can't imagine it asexually. Also, accountability is not a part of it for me. It's the exchange of power and the loss of control of the key to a keyholder. Not having some woman chase after me and punish me for unlocking myself. I don't see myself enjoying what you seek at all. I'm like a polar opposite to you. Except we both like enforced chastity.
     
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    Well I've never thought of it that way, I wonder if my view on it is a little more odd or off than I thought.
     
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    At first, I wanted to tell you just that. But, I thought, what the hell do I know? Who else do I know? Nobody. So I just thought I would throw it out there to get your feedback.

    There's a $200 keysafe solution that makes remote keyholding simple and very secure.
     
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    Could you by any chance link that keysafe solution. I've owned a couple of those and have figured out how to crack them relatively easily, oddly enough for reasons both kink related and not.
     
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