a fairly common theme the chastised submissive or wishes to be chastised submissive has for his or her Dominate to TAKE control of their sexuality "completely". we whine, complain and even disrespecfully try to "top" in trying to control this "dream theme". the problem i see is once a submissive has luckily acheived his or her dream they chicken out and flip flop back and forth knowing their Dom can be manipulated. BAD BAD subs. topping <winks> be honest and i DARE you to answer this poll !