Searching for a chastity based lifestyle relationship

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  1. KH_inmydreams
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    I am Mistress Keyholder, lifetime chastity obsessive and world expert in the art of chastity control and denial.

    My original name was KH_in my dreams, and I have kept this name here as my profile shows my commitment to this lifestyle for over a decade on line, but actually, my interest has spanned my entire adult life, from my teenage years. You can read and see more about me on my blog - mistresskeyholder.blogspot.com, Twitter, Insta and FetLife and OF, all under the name Mistress KeyHolder or MistressKeyH where characters are restricted.

    In 2013 I found my dream man, but after 9 years, the unimaginable happened and he left me to be with someone else. Why, I will never know. He just went.

    I have given myself a year to grieve and get over him and now, exactly one year one, I set out on my journey to find a new lifestyle, life term chastity led relationship.

    I seek someone from the UK who has a secure chastity device which they can remain in long term. Things that are important to me are cwillingness to relocate, leanliness, intelligence, fitness, an active vanilla life and tallness. The MOST important thing is your commitment to a FL lifestyle with chastity control at the heart of it. I am incredibly experienced. I will guide a beginner and push am experienced sub.

    There is a lot more to me than I have put here, but I welcome thoughtful enquiries with a photo. There has to be an attraction to form a sexual relationship, but that doesn't mean you need to be attractive, just attractive to me.

    I am incredibly picky and will probably decline most who apply. I am seeking the one THE ONE to spend the rest of my life with.

    I look forward to hearing from you.

    Mistress Keyholder - Chastity obsessed lifestyle domme
     
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    You are a lady of my dreams! I have Latowski belt and i’d like to spend rest of my life in my belt with Best rubber lady with keys. Unfortunately i’m not from UK.
    PS: I start to fall in love with you. ❣️
     
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    You missed out. I’m already taken. Sorry.
     
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    And you would tell me that... why?
     
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    Oh the Latowski is a beautiful device.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion, it’s wonderful to have women here that know exactly what they want and aren’t shy to admit it. I’m sure there are many here that will contact you and hopefully you find a good match. If I was in a different situation, I would be considered a candidate. Happy shopping
     
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    Thanks. I like it too. I like even a belted girls
     
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    Thank you for the welcome, although I’ve been here 13 years. I sincerely hope I find what I search for. It took me 4 years to find my last partner. I hope that’s not indicative of this search .
     
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    Hello from N Ireland Ma'am,
    I wish you well in your search, I assume you are in England somewhere.
    It is so difficult to find someone in the lifestyle over here too, I have been searching for quite a while (single 11 yrs now). Good luck
     
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    hello @KH_inmydreams and welcome to here and i hope You like it here as well and i hope You find somebody that You want to have.
     
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    In my opinion you should share a little bit more information about yourself, maybe include a recent photo.

    It's good to share kinks but you can't build a relationship on kink alone.
     
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    maybe even a rough location as well.
     
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    Maybe your sort code and mothers maiden name.
     
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    I will worship you from the states as you deserve nothing less. I hope you find the man you deserve.
     
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    Good point! I work full time in a professional role and love my job. I enjoy keeping fit and active in my spare time and enjoy walking, cycling, bouldering and gardening. I'm passionate about environmental issues as well.
     
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    Hello Miss,
    I am a beginner and looking for this lifestyle. I know you are super choosy when it comes to choosing your sub.
    I am interested and to be honest, i dont have much to say.
    Its like dream come true if i can be with you.
     
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    Hello Ma'am, greetings from France, I am new here, and just want to get to know people like you and see where things go. Ultimately I want a ltr real relationship, companion/best friend type.
     
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    Hello Miss,

    Thank you for the wonderful read of you post and also browsed some of your blog posts, hope you don’t mind! Find it great that you’re putting yourself out there after things not working out and also knowing what you want. You seem a very interesting woman indeed and would love to talk to you more some time!

    I’m Liam by the way. I’m 6’6 from the UK and have always known my place and enjoy being with a woman who leads the relationship and knows what she wants. I’m obedient and seek to please and also make meaningful relations x
     
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    Hello MISS, I hope YOU don't mind me following YOU?
    I took a quick look at YOUR blog and just wanted to express my sympathy to YOU, I appreciate it has been a year since YOUR boy left.
    I just wanted to wish YOU good luck in YOUR search for a new puppy, please be careful. Thankyou MISS
     
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    You are indeed a rare person, most tops,are in it for financial gain, so I salute you
     
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    Hi Mistress- this sounds like what I’ve been looking for and I would love to chat to you further. (I’m5 foot 11 so I don’t know if that counts as tall!)
     
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    Hi Mistress- I replied above but see I should perhaps have replied here instead. I live in Leeds but can easily relocate. I have been seeking an FLR for a long time and would love to chat more with you.
     
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    I have asked you to reply privately to me.
     
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    Thank-you very much. MKH
     
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    I did put Yorkshire as a tag in the post, but Doncaster area if you need more specific
     
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