:animal0028:I am lazy so i am going to use the same intro I have on Chastity Lifestyle.:animal0048: Good day to you reader. I will try not to bore you with to many mundane stories here. Lets just say I am 55 Y/O, 6'1" tall, 210 lbs, reasonably fit, 7.5" uncut and thick, bisexual, a 98% dominant, love my wife but like to play with bois occasionally. At one time I had a double guiche piercing and still have a Prince Albert that is at a 0 gauge size still, even though I do not wear a ring any longer. I am a Professional Project Manager for Construction in Commercial and Government project work. Well cultured, well educated, well traveled and posses a dry sense of humor. Some seem to think I am arrogant, but I prefer to think of it as self assured. I am definitely a Type "A" Personality, driven to succeed. I am and have been a successful trainer of bois in Cum Denial, Erection and Orgasm Control, BDSM, Sounding, Electro stimulation, Spanking, Chastity, humiliation, K9 work, CBT, anal work, WS and a non reciprocal recipient of cock sucking.:anim_39: My relationship at home is pretty mundane in comparison, we have had very minor excursions into the BDSM realm, but my wife is not intrigued as I am about the wilder side of sex. Through the years I have been selective in playmates and it has served me well as I am still Drug and Disease free. I have recently developed a feeling for trying chastity on myself and the feeling of being powerless to orgasm. I ordered a CB-6000 from www.KeptforHer.com with the KSD G3 inserts. I had done a considerable amount of research regarding the best and most comfortable way to experience chastity and this appeared as the most logical choice to me. I have had the device now for three weeks and have been locked away for 16 of the past 21 days, just to get a feel for being locked. I have learned quite a bit in this period, from maintaining cleanliness, to lubrication to assist in entering the device, to shaving to keep from pulling hair, how to urinate and eliminate the last residual in the urethra, all kinds of things I had never thought of before. Currently I am my own Key Holder, but would like to experiment with some other person that is obviously trustworthy being a Key Holder just for the experience. I am looking for encouragement and suggestions on how best to approach my wife with this craving. I would love for her to become my Key Holder. I am willing to listen to any idea that you the members may have in offering a Path Forward for me in my quest. Thanks in advance for your assistance, and thanks for taking the time to read this introduction. I look foreward to becoming a contributing member of this community.