Screw Loose

Sounds totally normal to me.

I have been thinking about the ideas in Mistress Scarlet's new book about "submissive contentment". She advises Wives to experiment finding more and more things that the Wife enjoys doing, that also makes the husband "feel very submissive". So, if you buy her thinking, she feels all that all of us chastity enthusiasts love "feeling submissive". I think I do. So we like being PUT into chastity, forced into? or even just BEING locked in chastity by ourselves. They all can make me feel more submissive.

Add to that it's HOT, and Frustrating, and CRAZY seeming......... (Taboo, exciting, ......)

It's the longest duration bondage that I know of. And quite a charged type of bondage as well.

This play is FULL OF CONFLICTING FEELINGS, THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS. I often wonder, What am I doing?? during locked sex, and just after locking up or extending the time.

You can look at it any way that works for you and your love. I'm not saying any way of looking at it is the right way.

But it's a charged form of play that seems to work for a lot of people.

 

I think what your feeling is actually pretty normal. There is a comfort in feeling your package trapped in a device, almost like pride or something. Maybe chivalrous?

 

All the answers so far are correct. It's not possible for me to wear my cage to work, and I'm typically a bit disappointed when Monday morning rolls around and have to take it off. In contrast, I try hard to get home early on Fridays (like today!) so I can get back in my cage and hand the key over to my wife/KH for the weekend. It's practically exciting! I just put mine back on a few minutes ago, and I already feel much better. Hard to describe, but its real.

 

What

do you do for work ?im a plasterer and wear my cage or belt to work