Hi folks, This is may be the oddest introduction you'll ever read. Both my wife and I are coming on for 63 years old. My libido is ridiculously high for my age - I want sex every night - but my ability to orgasm does not match that and it can take 45 minutes to get me off (after I've satisfied my wife, obviously) on the nights we do have sex. She does not want sex every night, more like every second or third night and that may be only because she doesn't want to disappoint me. She admitted to me recently that she sometimes feels guilty when she refuses sex. So I've turned to a form of chastity to try to solve two of these problems. We just today signed a contract that limits me to between 1 and 3 orgasms each fortnight. That must strike most of you as luxury and I agree that is not very high on a scale of orgasm denial but there's always the option to change the numbers later. I'm hoping that this will improve my orgasms, make them better and easier to obtain, and at the same time take the pressure off my wife, no need for her to feel guilty about refusing an activity that isn't going to be for my sexual release anyway. I was prepared to buy a chastity device but my wife was not happy about that as it would make our sex less spontaneous, which means that this has to work on the honor system. One advantage I have at my age is that I can last. I never come before my wife during intercourse, in fact I don’t come during intercourse at all unless she pinches my nipples hard. I am also hoping that reducing my orgasms won’t change that so she doesn’t get a worse sexual service from me. Guess that’s about it for now.