Hi I'm new to this site and i'm not a very good typist. I have been living the sissy lifestyle for quite a few years now, but sort of on my own. I see what you mean when you say be carful what you wish for. My wife/mistress just can't get over the idea that she might be hurting my pride by turning me into her fulltime sissy maid. She has no problem making me spend extended periods of time on my knees keeping her satisfied, or making me practice my oral skills on her man size dildo for hours at a time. I just can't get her to go further and get involved with gags clips plugs and chastity belts. She is afraid she is going to hurt me and that stops her from going any further. Any one have any advice for her?
It’s a tough one. These things just take time. You need to take baby steps. Master was scared of hurting me for long time and occasionally still worries. I will try and get him to post his thoughts he would be the best person to ask. My best advice would be not to push her too hard, it might make your Mistress to become more resistant. Seems like things are moving in the right direction though. Oh also, you could remind you Mistress that you have a safe word which should stop anyone being hurt mentally or physically. Welcome to the site by the way. Kris x
:welcome: slave kris pretty much expressed how I feel on the subject... plenty of communication, gentle coaxing and your safe word. A word of warning though, do not try and get her to push your limits the first couple of times. Use your safeword earlier than you need to, to help reassure her that you WILL say stop when you need too. :anim_25:
Daily duties My mistress is finally starting to get more involved after reading about what really does happen in this lifestyle. The only problem is that now she expects a daily anal lapping and I am not sure if I should continue down that path or try to talk her out of it. Any thoughts on the subject.
Is it a hard limit for you or just something you don't care to do. Why is it you don't want to do it? As long as it's clean i see no harm. Is it a hard limit for you? If so then it is something you both need to talk about. If not then just do it. As i see it the lifestyle is all about stretching your horizions. She is the one in charge after all. Rachel