Last night my wife and I were in bed. I was massaging her back and her whole body. I'm 12 days into a 22 day lock-up and haven't had an orgasm in that time. I got extremely horny and wanted to be in her so badly! We had also been drinking a bit so I guess I wasn't thinking completely clearly. Then I did it. I used the safe word so she'd release me and we could have sex. It did not turn out that way! Instead she told me "NO. You can't use the safe word for that! You are not getting unlocked. That is bullshit." This is the first time in our first year of this where she's really taken charge . She's still in bed. I'm still ridiculously horny. And I don't know what she's going to do to punish me. She'll do something I'm sure . Of course she had an orgasm with me licking her butt which was very hot!!