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    #1 henry58, Oct 28, 2018
    Maybe a tale of caution or just basically sad, but when after many years of a D/s lifestyle, one suddenly finds oneself alone, is it a surprise that a pathetic submissive finds himself drawn to Femdom porn to feed his ridiculous mind? Incredible, that once having something so great and quite defining, once left alone, miserable male traits creep in. To anyone, especially submissives, treat your Matriarch well, be useful and obedient and if you are very lucky, She may well consider you worthy of keeping around. If not..... well let's just say a life without direction can lead to something far less rewarding. i seek no pity and expect complete disdain, but i do like it here and hope to be useful. :pray:
     
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    #2 L-u-c-y, Oct 29, 2018
    Don't give up hope henry, it's never too late to find someone :)
     
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    #3 henry58, Oct 29, 2018
    Mistress Lucy. Such an honour and thank you:pray:..
     
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    #4 Unlucky, Oct 29, 2018
    Or you could find a relationship with someone who respects and cherishes you and thus won't just kick you to the curb.
     
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    #5 Joey love, Oct 29, 2018
    No pity OR disdain- just best wishes. Gotta get up, dust yourself off and get back in the game
    Good luck
     
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    #6 LesterBallard, Oct 29, 2018
    That must be difficult. I can give you all the cliches - one day at a time, these things sent to try us and so on - but basically just hang in there.
     
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    #7 henry58, Oct 29, 2018
    Well not quite kicked to the curb. We just came to a t junction. She went left and i went right. It happens.
     
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    #8 bondinchas, Nov 2, 2018
    For every guy that finds themself alone, at any age, there's a girl in the same situation.
    (probably more girls, they live longer!)
     
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    #9 Mash2214, Nov 7, 2018
    I agree with Miss Lucy. Have faith it’s never to late.
     
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    #10 tomf_22033, Nov 7, 2018
    I had the opposite problem
    My ex started drinking really bad.
    So bad she got violent so I had to leave.

    It saddens me as she was amazing and we had a relationship to die for when she was sober.

    I hope to find another relationship like what we had minus the drunken drama. So only time will tell. Until then I’m just rebuilding my life again.
     
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    #11 Rectrix, Nov 9, 2018
    Sorry to hear, I know that can be so difficult.
     
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    #12 boo, Nov 17, 2018
    These are relationships like any other, and sometimes they fail. I'm an older sub who was cast out a few years ago, so I know the loneliness and hopelessness. Like all other aspects of life, relationships too are often fluid.
     
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    #13 Mistress Jules, Nov 17, 2018
    @lockit and I didn't find each other until our 40s and had both been single for many years before that. Neither of us was particularly looking for a partner and here we are years later.
     
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    #14 Mash2214, Nov 17, 2018
    And the rest is Herstory
     
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