Ruined relationship

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    #1 obedientmark, Aug 17, 2019
    Last week I ended up ruining my relationship with my Goddess. She wanted by bank details so her father could deposit money in my account and then send it to my Goddess, I said no I couldn't do that. I was about to send my key to her, something I was really excited on doing. Since the split, I am still in chastity (I don't want to remove it) and now feeling sad and alone. I felt it was some sort of scam but I don't know now.
    Sorry, I had to tell someone and put it out there.
     
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    #2 Peaches, Aug 17, 2019
    If it felt like a scan to you then it probably was. You made the right call.
     
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    #3 Billus, Aug 18, 2019
    How did you meet this woman? Have you ever met her in person? Spoken to her on the phone? If she really cared about you she wouldn't ask or need your account info. You probably saved yourself losing whatever money you have in that account. Good on you for not being a sucker. If it helps any, you didn't 'ruin' anything. You probably never had a 'relationship' with her in the first place. She was just playing you like a fiddle.
     
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    #4 obedientmark, Aug 18, 2019
    I met her online just over a year ago. We did speak on the phone but she would never go on cam. She would always have some excuse. I did let her login to my amazon account and she never abused it. I really dont know if she cared or not.
     
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    #5 Nicoftime, Aug 18, 2019
    So she needed your bank account for her dad to deposit money in so you could give it to her? That is right up there with the Saudi prince that wants to give you 2 million if you just send them 200 and open up a caiman island bank account.

    Relationships don’t revolve around this type of behavior.

    Consider yourself lucky that you saw through it, although it didn’t sound like you were too sure. I would suggest you not give anyone access to your accounts.
     
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    #6 MissyB, Aug 18, 2019
    Sounds like you made the smart decision, but I feel your pain in losing what you thought you were building. Good luck meeting a Mistress deserving of you.
     
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    #7 Anonoman, Aug 18, 2019
    As everyone body else has said :(
    But on a practical note, if you haven’t already, change the login for your Amazon account...
     
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    #8 locked_top, Aug 18, 2019
    Definitely a scam.
     
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    #9 obedientmark, Aug 18, 2019
    That was the 1st thing I done.
     
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    #10 eoniss, Aug 18, 2019
    Her dad probably wasn't her dad and it was a hacked bank account. She would have used you as a proxy to get the money without leaving a trail. Pretty sure you dodged serious trouble.
     
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    #11 krystalasbaby, Aug 18, 2019
    you definately dodged a bullet on that. i had a supposed Mistress once ask for my banking information along with the sign in for any and all email accounts. Refused the bank and email sign ins
    Good move on your part, give it time and as MissyB said you will find the right Mistress for yourself.
    ps: on a personal note remove the chastity for a bit. You may associate that with her.
     
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    #12 obedientmark, Aug 18, 2019
    Thank you everyone for replying. I had suspicions for sometime but my desire to be owned overcome my common sense.
     
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    #13 Blue Moon, Aug 18, 2019
    Reading through this makes me realize how lucky I am that my wife & Goddess is my keyholder. If she were not here for me, I don’t know if I could go as far finding an online Keyholder. And it’s the ‘don’t know’ facet that strikes me the most because chastity has a strong allure. Where might unmet needs like chastity and being her sissy lead me? I don’t want to find out. Thank you, Cassandra’sCreator, for being all I need.
    As difficult as it may be obedientmark, keep your head on straight and wits about you. Your mate is out there, searching for you.
     
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    #14 subhubandy, Aug 18, 2019
    better give yourself 10 SPANKS with a belt as punishment for falling for this
     
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    #15 obedientmark, Aug 18, 2019
    I certainly do deserve to punish myself for being so stupid
     
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    #16 subhubandy, Aug 18, 2019
    loose ten pounds, give ten to charity, ten strokes, ten more days to chastity, be nice to 10 people who don't deserve it
     
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    #17 LesterBallard, Aug 19, 2019
    definite scam. Well avoided.
     
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    #18 Krisy, Aug 19, 2019
    So this is how it works usually. She tells you that her "dad" transfered the money in and suddenly 10k appears in your bank which you transfer out to "her". It eventually turns out the money came from one of your savings accounts but by the time you realise it its long gone.

    Well done for spotting it

    K
     
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    #19 R2002, Aug 19, 2019
    There but for the grace of God
    Glad you were not robbed, and sorry for your loss
     
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    #20 keysandlocks, Aug 19, 2019
    Such a shame that women can act like this.I have had men offering Me all sorts and turned them all down.I don't like the findom thing at all..A relationship is based on love and trust, regardless of anything else.
     
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    #21 obedientmark, Aug 19, 2019
    Thanks
     
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    #22 obedientmark, Aug 19, 2019
    I thought we had a trusting and loving arrangement then bam!. She wasn't happy with me when I said no.
     
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    #23 R2002, Aug 19, 2019
    Youre very welcome
     
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    #24 tomf_22033, Aug 19, 2019
    No you trusted her
    And “she” was setting you up
    Scammers can be patient

    Remember this is her job. “She” makes her money doing this.
    I’m guessing you’re not the only one.

    You’re just the lucky one to not be fleeced
     
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    #25 Blue Moon, Aug 20, 2019
    Tomf is right. Look at the bright side. You could be telling this tale of woe from the poorhouse.
     
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