Ruined Orgasms

A ruined orgasm should be something your keyholder gives you. (Tied down to the bed, of course.)
Usually given to keep your sexual arousal high.
Ejaculation should not happen! You get to the edge and stop!
Fluid dribbling out is what you want to see.

 

This is something up to all the people involved in your male chastity. Chastity to some extent by definition is the practice of refraining from sexual intercourse, but around here it doesn't exactly mean that. To us (my wife and I), my chastity means I am to only orgasm when she permits it.

Your question is a personal one that you need to define with the parties involved in your situation, there is no right or wrong way to do this though. Just make sure all parties involved know and follow the rules that they agree to & are happy with.

 

My madam doesn’t consider a ruined orgasm cheating, she loves the frustration it causes.

 

Let me check the rule book….
I don’t think it’s cheating at all. I think everyone’s version of chastity is their own. If my wife and I didn’t have ruined orgasms to play with I don’t think we’d have half as much enjoyment through chastity as we do. She enjoys it. It provides me with enough relief but ultimate frustration to carry on.

 

Question is, for those of us who have had a Prostate op. and, as a result, 'recycle'? our seen into the bladder, how do we know when we've had a ruined O.