ruined orgasm

I know from my own experience with my wife in firm control she has learnt to ruin my orgasms very well. She will only drain a small amount before locking the cage again.

 

hi all. i think Goddess Jen has the right idea, i used to let slave tell me when he was close, but noticed he would wait as long as he could. i have learned now when his little cock starts twitching to let go and watch. sometimes there is some cum, sometimes not, either way it gets locked when i say its done. it is my cock after all!

 

I think there is some confusion about what a ruined O is. Some call it ruined when teasing and stop just short with some dribble. To me, the perfect ruined O is when she stops right as she sees it coming out. ( I warn her when it's about that time) It's like the body says "ok it's on" but then the stimulation stops. Much much more frustrating than some dribble.

Just my opinion

 

For me a ruined orgasm is when she stops stimulating and cum pours out in quantity, not just a dribble. If I feel my cock pumping, even if she lets go, then that's an "abandoned" orgasm, not a ruined one. It's hard to achieve what I described, but I have done it quite often. There is no pleasure, just oozing out cum.

But I strive for no orgasms of any kind, so there's that.

 

Is it better to just hold and squeeze or let go completely? Like if the guy bucks his hips he can get some feeling in that way.

 

That sounds delightful.

Mistress always orders me to ruin my own in the shower and eat it.
My way of knowing if it’s ruined is, “can I eat my cum?”

If so, it was ruined. If not, it was a full orgasm.

 

I think it's better to let go, but you have to let go before pumping happens. If pumping happens that's an orgasm to me.

 

I’ve had the pumping, but for me there is still no sensation when I ejaculate.