Ruined Orgasm with Self-Bondage to help in holding off...

What a fantastic scenario, you could perhaps use a timer lock which opens after a set time.

 

Well there is this:
https://maustec.io/collections/frontpage/products/eom3k
There are some DIY versions on the web as well. I think the idea is that you are restrained. The butt plug detects that you are close to orgasm and stops the stimulation (vibrator or similar). It leaves you to calm down then repeats the process. I think i would be too scared to try it.

 

Oh yeah have thought about that what a fantastic journey it would be Lovelocked.

 

It works, but it can take some experimenting to get it dialed in, and for me eventually everything goes numb from the vibration if it's set low enough to prevent any orgasm. That's usually after many frustrating pauses that don't quite get me as close to the edge as my KH can, or I would like. On the other hand if I set the trigger a little higher it's ruthless at detecting the start of an orgasm completely ruining it.

I've only used it while caged, using adapters I 3D printed from flexible filament (my KH doesn't let me out much). They have a cap (some detachable) to prevent a mess, and easily pop on and off. The EOM vibrator head is the same size as the standard magic wand my KH prefers to use on me.

 

For me ruined orgasms with the EOM3k don't quite feel "so good" as much as demoralizing and tragic.

There is usually some bucking of my hips in a futile gesture to get a little more stimulation, but mostly it's resignation and disappointment as I feel my penis pulse in its Cage, pumping out ejaculate without any of the release my body was expecting.

Then the vibration starts again, with me even more desperate for a real release, but all I can really hope for is a chance at one more unsatisfying ruined mess before my refractory period kicks in and the vibration becomes just a cruel reminder.

It's a pretty empty, unsatifying, and terrible feeling really. I should probably remind Mistress that we haven't played with it lately...

 

Unfortunately the EOM3K didn't exist the last time I had free access to myself, or to our toybox. Like our other vibrators, use of this devices is purely at the whim of my KH, who ensures I'm quite helpless and unable to interfere with the controls.

I did buy the penis sleeve with the EOM3K, but to date it remains unused. So far she has only used the 3D printed caps for my Cage to hold the vibrator, allowing her to engage in other activities while I struggle with the machine....

 

you can always trust the internet!

 

I have been saving for an EOM3k for a while…would you consider making those 3D printed caps for others? Genius idea…..

 

If permitted by the KH a simple method is with your hands cuffed behind your back to let you fuck yourself with a dildo that is fixed to a stable surface by suction only.
Situps are a strenous exercise so you may not reach the ruined orgasm,just a kind of pleasure that drives you to higher levels of hornyness and frustration...

 

Thank you!

I'm probably not interested in producing them for others, but I could share the design files if you have access to a 3D printer, or if someone else on CM who is more business minded wants to start providing them (like @mistressmaturemetal or @JosieLynn Jewell). I've made three styles, all printed with TPU filament.

The first is just a cap (cup) that snaps onto the end of the cage with no ring for the wand, and it can come in handy for some sessions,

The normal adds a ring to mount a wand massager. This allows hands free use, and the cup catches the mess. My KH loves how quick and easy it can be (no comment from me). It's used for the majority of our play sessions. The wand can face either up or down, allowing her to straddle your legs and get up against the wand head if she wishes, and it's a great hands-free accessory during strap-on play as well.

The other design you can see in the previous picture has a removeable cup and a curved slot that allows underwear to be worn between the cage and the device. You're already denied an erection and a full release, now your Cage stays completely covered during the sesion.

Or if you're into it, imagine looking down and seeing only panties, with a wand vibrator held against the bump. It can be incredibly emasculating. For even more humiliation the cup end of the cage attachment can removed, leaving you unable to prevent both a ruined orgasm and ruined panties.

 

I appreciate you thinking of me - I very much like what you've designed, and integration of a magic wand holder was something I got semi-started a couple years ago, but it didn't get out of the planning phase.

Unfortunately, neither TPU nor Nylon PA11 (which has some decent flex) is a material I have available to offer in my shop on the Shapeways marketplace - It's a fight I could take up, but I'm still behind on making the sealed materials available on all the items due to how thinly I'm stretched these days.