Ruined Orgasm Help

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    #1 Stevejames732006, Jan 24, 2021
    I’ve always struggled to know what a ruined orgasm should feel like, as there are quite a few conflicting articles.

    When my wife teases and stops eventually there is a lot of pre cum/pre ejaculate. Eventually there is a stream of what I believe is pre ejaculate. After starting and stopping a bit longer I ejaculate , sometimes this is a steady stream and sometimes this does spurt.

    Is the ruined orgasm when I ejaculate (this feels more like an orgasm but not as satisfying) or when the dribble comes out (which just feels frustrating)?

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    #2 Stevejames732006, Jan 24, 2021
    Actually with a better google search I found the answer. Yes I am having a ruined orgasm, and I understand the difference between edging as well.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Jan 24, 2021
    Ruined is not pre-ejaculate but ejaculation without any feeling of orgasm
     
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    #4 StubHub, Jan 24, 2021
    Enjoy them! Sometimes that's all there is.
     
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    #5 Xileh, Jan 25, 2021
    But, but, when you have no idea what she/he has in mind, the ruined orgasm can be an exquisite disappointment as you are locked up again with a lot of anticipation, and sadly, no relief.
     
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    #6 StubHub, Jan 25, 2021
    Don't disagree, the elation of the moment. tempered with the unknown future. Can be exciting.
     
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    #7 LockedPom, Jan 25, 2021
    Depending on how well it was timed a ruined orgasm will have between 0-30% of the pleasure of a normal orgasm, and significantly less prolactin production (less post orgasm drop).
     
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