My wife and I finally found a cage that works for us, the tiniest little thing ever. My problem is the ring size - 40 is a little tight I think, but it doesn’t stay in place when using 45. Is there a test I can do to test if 40 isn’t too tight?
i dont know if theres a test but if it hurt a lot then its prob a bit to tight. If you want to make it a teeny bit bigger but not like a 45 one then you can send it to Etsy and they can do it. I am not very big and rings like 40 am to big but Mistress send them to Etsy and they make them smaller so they fit me.
Can you get a finger under it? If so then it’s not to tight. But maybe you need a size in between, I wear a 47mm ring, the 45 was to tight, and the 50 was to big, and those mm make all the difference.