My Keyholding Wife agreed to put me in chastity if I lost 50 lbs. Orgasms would be granted for additional weight loss. Met the goal and we started this weekend - sort of. KHW had to work Saturday. I was locked in the Bon 4. Not easy but I figured it out. Loved how it felt stretching my balls and scrotum. Wife gave me a list of chores, mainly cleaning floors, and a pair of sheer black lace panties with little red hearts as my maid outfit. Nipple teasing was very intense before she left. I was on sensation overload. Everything exceeded my expectations, except for the Bon 4. My testicles retreated three times through the ring before I gave up. I was using the smallest ring size that I could squeeze my testicles through. I am still 100 lbs over weight and with a mound of fat behind my balls and cock. Fat thighs are also not helping. So I guess you could say I am high and tight? Right testicle rides very high and runs for cover the moment I touch it - like a damn prairie dog at the first sight of a hawk. Needless to say I was crushed and my wife was disappointed when she returned home. I would like to tap the collective experience and wisdom about options. I like the look of the MM Jail Bird. Appears easy to clean me and the device. Will be much easier to put on than the Bon 4. My KHW is reading A Keyholder's Handbook to gain some insight. She shocked the hell out of me by suggesting we might need a device with spikes. I showed her the Jail Bird with spikes and she liked it. I immediately ordered the sizing rings. Other issue is wearing the device full time. My KHW felt the Bon 4 created a nice bulge, but it wouldn't be prudent to appear at work with a bulge that did not exist before. My over sized thighs may have pushed the package out farther than normal. Can I find something that will comfortably keep the family jewels locked up and wear full time? Option two is comfortably locking up the family jewels coupled with the ease of quick installation when I get home. I appreciate you taking the time to read this and share your thoughts. KHW and I have other questions, but those can wait until I solve the main issue.