So I posted in my journal - Titles and limits / ideas - about the difficulty in finding a suitable title for my girlfriend when she is in a dominant / commanding mood. I explained more in the post but basically I like the idea of something along the lines of 'Mistress' or 'Miss' but I think she would maybe like something that sounds a bit prettier but still with a similar authoritative feel to the name. We have looked at some of the other common ones like Goddess and Princess but again those she found didn't feel very natural. Any suggestions? Also how do you try these names out, she is from a vanilla background so may also be a bit shy with trying these so when you were starting out did you find a good way to test the water with these sorts of things?