Lat night Madam was discussing with me the two men that she is considering. she asked me if I would prefer to meet them in the feminine or masculine role. The question surprised me a bit, because I spend almost all of my time in the feminine role, with the masculine role reserved for situations where it is an absolute necessity (family, ex-wife, business issues). I, of course, responded that I felt the proper role was the feminine, in the maid/housekeeper persona that she has placed me in. I have no fear or embarrasment at being introduced that way or serving in that role when they are in our home. The one point that I did bring up was that they needed to understand that I was to be respected. Neither Madam nor I have any interest in humiliation. I believe that it is a privilege to serve her and to be in our committed relationship (we are engaged, with wedding plans for next year). Mutual respect, regardless of our roles, is important in our relationship. I explained that I felt that needed to be communicated to the men in her life, especially since we both felt that I should have the opportunity to meet them. Humiliation is not a hard limit for me (I basically have none with Madam), but it turned out that we both felt the same way and that her partners needed to know that how they treated me would be a consideration in any relationship with Madam and that belittling the maid would not be tolerated. I've always known that Madam treasures me, and it was a good feeling to hear that we were on the same page in regards to this, and that my concerns, feelings, and opinions would be considered (though of course Madam has the final say).