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    Oh hell you're in the right place!

    Welcome to me 4 years ago... I didn't do the Domme thing, I didn't want to cause anyone any pain, and I didn't have a clue about chastity.

    My head space has completely changed, and I have to thank pet for a lot of that. He didn't really push me in any direction, he just encouraged me to explore things in my own time.

    Fast forward to this morning where I flogged him, E-stimmed his butt and gave him a ruined orgasm.

    It CAN happen, but it takes soooooooooooooo much patience and communication.

    Stick around and ask as many questions as you want.

    My first Journal was called The Reluctant Dominatrix for a reason! We do understand where you're coming from.

    Good luck!
     
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    I'm not sure what you mean by this.

    Everyone's experiences with milking are completely different, but I'm not sure that you will have any luck milking this evening if you've already been drained 3 times today by her pussy?

    I'm still confused what you mean by that.

    I know some people will say you need to leave quite a while between milkings so that the build up is bigger and can be felt easier by a Mistress looking for that spot.

    I'm all for rituals, but it is also possible you are making this more complicated than necessary.

    Good luck to you and your Mistress. I still can't milk pet efficiently.
     
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    Thank you Mistress Watchful

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    I too am confused by what you are calling milkings. It sounds more like ruined orgasms to me. Prostate Milking (often just referred to as milking in these forums) involves stimulation of the prostate through anal play, generally with no attention paid to the penis at all. Properly milked, the prostate will drain a few drops of fluid without necessitating arousal at all. There are those who believe that prostate milking is essential during prolonged chastity, if there are no orgasms. There are others who say this is not true. I'm personally in the "not true" camp myself.

    Ruined orgasms are generally achieved through stimulation of the penis. Just as climax approaches, stimulation is withdrawn. While orgasm occurs, it is unsatisfying, since the stimulation was removed at the last moment. A ruined orgasm will generate a normal amount of semen, while a prostate massage/milking will yield just a few drops.

    Given what you've written, I'm guessing that your recent scene was really a ruined orgasm, and not what most of us would call a prostate milking. Is that right?

    Just tryin' to clear up confusion! No matter what, it's hot hot hot! :)
    mikecb
     
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    Hehe, thanks for the clarification. As I said, "Hot, Hot, Hot!" :)

    mikecb
     
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    Whew...I think I need a cold shower. Or my husband to get his ass home asap to help. ;)

    Anyway, uber hot and sounds like you and the missus are having a lot of fun!!

    Sweetie, about a lot of people reading and not commenting. Don't take that to heart. If you'll notice we have a lot more men than ladies on this site. Which is fine...but there are a lot of shy people as well. You'll see the Mistress'/Goddess'/Madams' threads getting a lot more action :)P) than of the subbies. Please, don't let that discourage you.

    You should look at it as a positive thing that so many people found your thread interesting enough to have a read. Good luck and hope to hear more soon!!!
     
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    I second what Goddess Jen says... my Journal hit over 16,000 views, but didn't have that many posts.

    Also think of bloggers on the net, they blog for their own pleasure, not because they want to read what everyone else thinks.

    If you want a response, it may also help to ask a specific question, rather than relying on people to comment off their own back.
     
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