relationship crisis after 4 years

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    @ All - Happy new Year!

    Hello out there.
    I need help, but don't know how to put it in letters? I noticed that I am different from other men. That's why I signed up here. But my girlfriend can't handle it.
    Talks have so far not brought a solution. I don't know how to go on. I'm a little sad about this situation right now.

    Thanks for your attention and maybe someone has similar problems....
     
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    You’re gonna have to give us more info than that... Meaning how did you approach her about chastity or about how you are different. For the most part a lot of guys have trouble conveying their thoughts, feelings and understanding with chastity to their partners.

    So how did you approach her about it and what did she back to you?
     
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    very good question - to put that into words will be my task for tomorrow. then a detailed answer from me ...

    i didn't get the reaction i expected. but we bought the first cage together
     
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    Will watch for your details. My first round with chastity years ago was not met with much interest from her and faded.

    In the last few months a flicker arose in discussion of her trust issues with me lead to a private opening of Xmas gifts of 3 new cages from our brief internet shopping during the discussion.

    The failure of success with new cages quickly led to a new years resolution command to me to find a cage that would work for extended wear times.

    The first steps to a custom fit cage are in process for 2021. Don't know what is in future but I am expediting my efforts to fulfill my resolution successfully.
     
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    Sometimes you gotta tend to what is more important... chastity isn't everything
     
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    Going to try whatever she wants her suprises at Xmas and new year's task for me is the reason chastity came back. Don't know how far or what she wants but will follow her requests so options are open for her. Will see where it takes us. The last couple of months have shown some light.
     
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