Relationship changes from Chastity

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    I would welcome experiences from CM members on how after deciding to explore chastity and keyholding how did if at all this affect other aspects of your relationships. Did the keyholder discover until then desire and confidence to be more assertive in other aspects of the relationship and also in other areas of life such as at work.
     
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    This question touches the aspect of chastity that I have found most rewarding. I suggested chastity twelve months ago for a couple of reasons. Better than my submission or stimulation without release, has been her growth and acceptance of her natural dominance. It is my greatest reward and I will do anything for her.

    As a result, yes, our relationship is starting to change. I am sure it will build on the foundation we have laid, but I have no crystal ball for where it will go.
     
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    Our relationship has always been strong but as kids grow up and your marriage matures it is easy to let things become stale and take each other for granted. We were in a routine which worked when things were crazy but there is more time for us as our kids aren't quite so dependent on us for every minute of their lives.

    Chastity brought us closer, made me appreciate her more, made her realize how often I was 'self pleasuring' without her and maybe, just maybe made her a little more comfortable with being in charge of our sexual life in the bedroom.

    Lately, that has been what she wants when she wants it and how long she'll keep telling me, "no."

    I have never loved my wife more and crave her attention now where I used to take care of my own needs and find some other use of my time.
     
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    To be honest, this is such a personal question. It depends on the dynamic between you.
     
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    It’s helped my wife to enjoy sex more. It’s helped me feel better about her as my wife, since she enjoys sex now and I don’t feel like I and robbing and raping her every time now.

    But outside the bedroom, I wouldn’t say it has had much effect on other areas of life.
     
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    My Miss has become more assertive in general the longer we continue this. Theres no more beating around the bush, she is very direct with what she wants now. I on the other hand feel more tentative when offering suggestions and I genuinely get a little nervous if I have to bring up something to her that she may not like.
     
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    It had def made us closer and has brought her more around to the kink bdsm stuff and her being confident in herself and being kinky with out feeling weird plus I pay so much more attention to her. Which I love also knowing that she feels really sexy and powerful and loved
     
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    Being very new to MC, we are both going through some changes. I always thought I was s good partner and husband. Married 29 years, you start to just go with the flow. I brought up MC and wearing the cage about 2 months ago. Not knowing what to expect from my Wife. She agreed from day one. My Wife has always been a "people pleaser" and always took the back seat. It is hard for her to have me caged and see me begging and suffering with the T&D sessions. We have had more talks about what we both like and dislike on our sex lives Some I knew and some I had no clue on. It has opened both our eyes. We have be doing Locktober and my Wife is really enjoying our new life style...She is now talking long time chastity. how things have changed...She told me I'm "more fun" when caged. Not sure how long our MC will last, but I'm thinking I might be sorry what I wished for...:)...
     
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    When we first met, I earned most of the money and called the shots to a larger extent than my wife. We've been on this chastity and FLR journey for a long time and have no kids so there's been nothing to stop her defining how she wants our marriage to be. She's much more confident now and has got to a high position in her career whilst I have become a meek house husband. I have learned how she likes me to behave, dress and serve. I'm emotionally and financially dependent on her and I adore her, she has done so much for me in ways that would take too long to explain and are more personal than I want to share. This would not be for everyone but it can happen, I never thought back in 2001 when I bought a cb2000 from the states that we'd end up here.

    I know that if I wanted to take any level of control back it would likely end up in divorce as she's told me before she has no intention of ever going back. I wouldn't say this is a thrill ride and I love every minute. I sometimes hate the chores, day in day out or knowing that I'm at her beck and call 24/7. Or the fact that she can end any argument by disciplining me. But I brought up this lifestyle and willingly let her guide me to here so I've made my bed so to speak. Sometimes it really excites me too. It's a weird hot and cold thing.
     
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    My wife has become a soft dominant, and she has accepted the fact that I am totally submissive to her. On the plus side, she now has a lot more orgasms.
     
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