Regrets?

Too many wasted years

 

Honestly, no. It's part of who I am, and who I always have been - I have felt drawn to and wanting to be subservient to females since at least five years old. And crossdressing and BDSM, even though I didn't know what they were. I just had these thoughts in my head that gave me a painful erection and didn't understand why.

 

My Wife (KH) and I both agree we wish we would have started sooner in live. Really only found out of this 7-8 years ago. It is our way of living now. My Wife (KH) wouldn't have it any other way now.

 

A few regrets -

1) Wasting money on expensive cages before I knew what worked for me. I've actually got rid of nearly all of the expensive ones as they were too heavy or didn't fit right.

2) A couple of cages gave me skin rashes. Be sure to test a cage for a couple of hours, then half a day, before going longer. Look carefully for any signs of irritaiton (or rubbing/pinching).

3) I also regret not sharing it with a couple of past partners.

Otherwise, chastity has been a very positive experience, especially with reducing my porn and wanking addiction. It's also been fun to experiment with play partners.

 

I almost always wear the IIIDXY Cobra 85mm.

 

No regrets. I love everything about the lifestyle and it gets better every year, I am happiest when I am under her control.