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    Hi all,

    Hubby has been wearing a CB-3000 on and off and he frequently complains that the locking ring around the balls is very tight and uncomfortable, even though we are using the largest one of the three in the package.
    Are there any models out there that are easier to wear? After a warm show his little thingy can get to almost 2.75" soft and the CB-3000 seems to be the right length otherwise.

    We appreciate any recommendations.
     
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    Hi sdgd.
    Caged cucks and their complaints, makes you wonder who's in charge lol.
    jack had that prob for a while, but i made him work through it, I see it as a 'right of passage' so to speak. If t's on and off, that won't help and i would recommend long periods of permanency. If you are cucking him as well, no loss to you. You could change his device, say to BON4 (latex) model or a birdcage. Personally, i would make him get used to it and thank me for the privilege. Something like a new handbag or shoes. Enjoy xx
     
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    I have a vastly different opinion from Mandynjack.. I feel he's got to be comfortable in it, but still be reminded that his penis is out of his control. Something more like a gentle squeeze than something to endure. I've read so many complaints about the CB-X000 series of devices - discomfort, cracking, splitting, pinching, etc... It would not be on my recommended list. While not the greatest device out there, the holy trainer (and knockoffs) are a better alternative if and enclosed tube is the style you prefer. I like a more open cage, as they're better for hygiene, and plastic due to the reduced weight.
     
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    Yeah, he is a cuckold, and I am getting my sex from someone else. If you see our pics, then there is no doubt why.
    Nevertheless, without enough sleep his work performance suffers, so it is in my interest too.
    I will definitely check out the holy trainer. What would be a more open cage then?
     
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    I imagine hubby knows that he is being cuckolded? I be curious to learn about his thoughts on the snipping and cuckolding. It sounds like you have definitely taken charge.

    I have tried several of the plastic cages, but have found the stainless cages best for long term wear. It took me a few weeks to get used to wearing mine all night. Now that I've gotten used to it I have no problem wearing it all night. After the first month locked you hardly notice it's there.
     
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    Check out the inexpensive steel cages on aliexpress or dhgate or Amazon. Look for the ergonomic back ring, like that A273, A226 or A271.
     
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    Check out the inexpensive steel cages on aliexpress or dhgate or Amazon. Look for the ergonomic back ring, like that A273, A226 or A271.
     
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    Yes, hubby knows he is being cuckolded. He even encouraged it because of his tiny equipment.
    Are the stainless steel ones not too heavy?
     
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    I’d cuckold him too. He is so tiny :rolleyes:

    CB cages use cheap plastic, and the rings are known to be pretty abrasive...

    The Holy trainer Is a nice device, and the shape of the rings definitely make them more comfy.
    Custom Chastity by fox and Lady fox are great too. That’s the cage I’m locked in most often, and it’s pretty too. (You can look in my pictures)

    This said, he seems pretty new to it, and the first advice you received was not as bad as you think.
    It takes getting used to it!
    When I started to wear a CB 6000 back in the days, the 2” ring seemed to small as well.
    Nowadays, I use 1 1/2” :D
     
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    Do you have one bull or several? Does hubby get to watch/participate?
     
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    Yeah, I always tease him that half an inch less and it would be considered a medical condition. LOL.
    Thank you so much for your advice though.
     
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    I have several lovers and hubby's involvement varies depending on my mood.
     
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    Do you require him to service your bulls in any way?
     
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    Sleep is critical and from what I recommend the smaller the cage given his size the less ability to expand and less discomfort.

    I recommend finding him a comfortable cage, so he can be more frustrated and not in pain. If you are worried, I would recommend getting a condom and make him rub EMLA cream on his penis unlocked and then squirt it in the condom and have him wear it. So to ensure he has no feeling while he is unlocked.

    Mature metal and Lori cages I have seen are pretty good.

    Remember the more comfortable the cage the longer he can lock up and the more you as an alpha woman can enjoy your rightful place next to alpha men ....
     
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    Every now and then hubby gets to fluff my lovers, but most of the time we prefer privacy, without hubby being around.
     
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    That makes perfect sense. At least you've done him the favor of sucking on a real man's cock. I'm sure he's grateful, as he should be.
     
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    I would agree with the others that the cbxxx rings are not the best.

    You could also try the new HT3 or copies.

    Stainless steel cages are generally more open and easier to clean. He’d also find the round back rings looser than the cbxxx ones just because of the profile of the ring.

    Good luck in finding a more comfortable cage for hubby
     
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    For us smaller types there isn't enough stainless steel there to weigh very much. lol

    Maybe I missed it, but how long have you been cuckolding your fellow?
     
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    Can't even remember, it has been many years and many lovers.
     
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    Wow I previewed your pictures, he seems like he would be a loving and caring beta male, but you are right I am sure a woman can only handle a tongue and fingers for so long before needing "assistance".

    The Watchful Mistress or the Pet Trap would be good. But I do believe maybe you should get him pierced and get something to limit touching access (and I have heard Lori's devices are very good e.g. the version 18 of the devices .... google mature metal chastity -or- lori's secure chastity for more information.

    The one thing I did observe if I was a long time alpha over him is .... I would require him to shave completely. I would also make him get the full bro-zilla done. No hair and smooth like a baby boy ...

    Good luck on your research, and I would like to congratulate you on being a fully empowered person with full control over her feminine and masculine sides and being the truly independent alpha woman you are!
     
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