Reccomendations for a cock cage for my b/f? Models? Usage?

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    I was looking at this site

    http://www.extremerestraints.com/chastity-devices_26/

    and the CB6000 looks good I guess but I really have no idea, I've never bought one before.

    Any suggestions?

    I am also interested in suggestions on use.

    Basically my boyfriend is very submissive with a heavy focus on cuckold fantasy and he is addicted to porn.

    I plan to force him to wear a cock cage so that he can't jerk his cock while I am not home; forcing him to be all pent up and frustrated and willing to do anything I say before he gets unlocked =)
     
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    In my opinion the cb6000 is a good choice. If he is a little on the small side u may want to get the cb6000s as the cage is shorter. As far as usage i think almost everyone on this site has different levels of usage. Some are hard core 24/7 some are moderate and then there are those that just dabble. Nothing wrong with any of them. Just depends on what u guys are looking for. Personally goddess and are are someplace between dabble and moderate, i wear it when she tells me and it can be on for 2 weeks or 2 days then i may be out for 3 or 4 days then back in. I will warn u on this. It does take most not all but most some time to get used to wearing any chastity device, dont think when you get it u will be able to just slap it on and forget it. It has taken me over 3 months to adjust to wearing it long term. Just an FYI anyway good luck
     
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    Hi,

    I think the CB line is one of the best for begginers. I have a CB6000 and it's wonderfull.
    I've oredered mine from http://www.cb-2000.com/

    Good luck

    -Cherry
     
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    That's what I'd do for starters. The advantage is that the range of rings and spacers means that the device can fit nearly all sizes, and you can have him locked up immediately. But for long-term you may like to consider something metat, and made to measure, for added security.

    Joro
     
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    Its very addictive once you buy him one, if you dont lock him up he'll be begging you to lock him, then he'll want you to buy him different ones, each have there own sensations.
    Excellent atart.

    Starflyer
     
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    We started with the CB range, they're a very good entry level device.

    Be prepared for an awful lot of "odd" emotions to start coming your way though... including temper tantrums!

    :welcome: to the Mansion, and keep us informed of how it goes.
     
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    Thanks for all the replies, on a related note what should I expect when I lock him up and he suddenly can't watch his ridiculous amounts of cuckold porn every morning?

    My goal is to keep him pent up and frustrated so that I can do whatever I want with him when I get home later in the day.

    He hasn't gone down on me in ages and I was thinking I will use that as a condition that must be met before I would consider unlocking his sissy cock.

    He gets off very fast when I ride him while shoving my large black dildo in his mouth and I love doing it but I hate how fast he gets off.

    Will the cage be painful for him when he is turned on? Will I be able to bury his face and force him to eat me for a good 30 minutes like I have always dreamed of doing?

    I am new to all this =)
     
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    I think what ever you want from him is going to be pretty easy once you have the key and he is under your control. I think (Just my non Chastised member thought) is that you may want to consider how you deal with this control. If you encourage him to suck cock for example (Even if its a dildo) and associate that with his pleasure you might be making that an important part of sex for him. Do you "want" a man who craves cock and is a sissy? If you have him under some kind of control what do you want to train him to really do? If your goal is to let him have his cuckold fantasy you may well want to encourage this but??? Is that what YOU want or is this just his particular fetish this week?
     
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    He will become uncomfortable, but it won't be painful in a CBT type of way.

    Be clear that doing X, gets Y... trust and communication are all important. Of course you can change the rules whenever you want, but you might want to wait a while before trying that.

    Also know that it may take him time to settle into wearing it, chaffing, balls popping out, etc, while you get the right size.
     
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    This might be a little confusing. They only come in one size, but there are spacers and rings and things to adjust the fit. Be prepared to spend at least a week fitting the device (taking it on and off and trying new spacers and rings).

    But from your posts, sounds like you know exactly what you're going to be doing with it!! Is this a surprise or does he know you're ordering it to use on him? He could get pretty grumpy for a while if you just surprise him and tell him this is the new world order (unless he's already a devoted experienced sub).

    Good luck and enjoy your 1/2 hour pussy eating marathons!
     
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    I'd like to echo Ms Watchful's post about unexpected consequences. Locking a man into chastity doesn't just mechanically stop the unwanted wanking, it's much more complex than that. He is going to go through a whole range of unexpected emotions that you are both going to have to talk through and deal with. Chastity should also be absolutely consensual or it won't work and you risk introducing resentment and negativity into the equation.

    Also, what occurred to me when I read your posts was the question of cuckolding - is it something that you are into yourself or is it just a fantasy of his - hence the porn consumption? Chastity is going to potentially complicate this a whole lot more when he can't "get off" on porn. Jimi's point is a good one - when you have control, you need to be quite clear on what it is you want out of it - it isn't just about thwarting his porn addiction! Lengthy oral service is a pretty fine start by the way.....

    Be clear, be strong and be consistent. Getting the correct device is secondary to all that.

    Good luck
     
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    Well, I don't have any desire to seek a lover which is usually part of his cuckold fantasies but I do enjoy the other parts of the fantasy. IE: Calling him names, dressing him in lingerie, making him suck my dildo's while I ride him, etc...
     
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    The CB6000 came in the mail today and I promptly locked him up =)

    I'm off to work but I will keep this thread updated with any interesting developments.

    I am always open to suggestions, advice, info =)
     
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    A word of caution. The first time that you lock him up overnight, make sure he doesn't have anything important to do the next morning. I maybe slept a half an hour the first night. It was in part due to an improper fit, but even if you found the magic perfect fit for him, he won't get much sleep.
     
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    Reccomendations for Chastity

    ChloeM,
    Congratulations on taking the great step in your lifetaking control, of sex initiatives (yours and your boyfriends) and of the direction your sex life is taking.
    You could do no better than to go through LateKate thread Experience of Male Chastity on NetDoctor.co.UK.
    Or google All About ChastityAn Informative Page for Women. Thee are a couple of excellent pages on the benefits (as well as travails) of male chastity as also the how to so as to forestall problems and issues.
    All the best and let us know how it is goingfor you and for him.


    I am new to all this.
     
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    Congratulations and good luck with your new plan. I keep my sissy husband in a CB6000s also.
    I'd love to hear how things are "developing".

    I also sent you a private message with more details.

    Karen
     
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    He's been locked up for 5 days and no update? Inquisitive minds must know!
     
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    Perhaps an explosion

    Perhaps She became so delighted with his subservience that all of Her time is being taken up by teasing and tormenting him.

    Poor guy (NOT!)
     
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    I'm sure we'll hear something when she's ready to share. :Locker:
     
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    cb6000

    personally, the cb6000 never really did it for me. i could pull out at any point.... and im pretty sure anyone else wearing it could as well.
     
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    And yet we've been using one on and off for 4 years. It goes back to the old debate "why pull out" which we have many threads on.

    Each to their own.
     
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    ...

    why pull out? the considerable temptation of achieving pleasure and ending frustration. if you can pull out, but are exercising the self discipline not to... what is the point of even wearing the device?
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    One idea , very simple, is: once you've locked him up, do nothing! Just wait, and wait, and leave him simmer. Hatch some plans, though. Wait till he makes a move. Then tell him he's impertinent and tweak his berries and name your terms.

    And ENJOY!

     
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    cb

    i have had many cb's , the cb6000short is by far the best one to wear
     
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    Sorry it's been so long since I posted.

    I have been very very busy.

    I ended up taking the cage off him because he said it was very painful, always pinching when walking etc.

    We tried some baby oil and the little amount of oil that came with it but it didn't seem to help very much.

    He isn't small at all so I think that might be a factor...

    Any ideas?
     
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